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post #21 of 23
Sorry this happened to you.

As I don't know your father could it be possible that he just said what he said without thinking and not meant to sound as bad as it did?

I know some people say stupid things without realising it or say it, realise what they had said and not said anything afterwards hoping that it didn't sound as bad as they thought it did.

I would definitely be upset in your shoes, infact I'd probably be crying and absolutely furious.

My father kept on asking me if this pregnancy was officially confirmed by the doctor. This annoyed me because he didn't believe me as if I didn't know any better! Grrr

My father says stupid things in the past and doesn't get it when I get mad at him.

Try not to let it get to you too much. I know it is easier said than done. Relax, think positively and enjoy your pregnancy - this one is going to stick!
post #22 of 23
How awful! I've come to realize that people can be really insensitive when it comes to miscarriages. People don't seem to realize how hurtful they're being. I'm sorry he said such a thing to you.
post #23 of 23
I'm so sorry! I am shocked that someone could say that, but having suffered losses myself, I realize that when family doesn't know what to say they seem to say really stupid things they don't mean. It sounds like you handled it better than I may have...
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