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post #1 of 5
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Ok, so I had a hellish day today!

April of last year I sent a letter and repayment plan
to the 9 creditors I could track down to whom I owed
debt from before getting married. I specified that
this was money I was making from my work at church (NOT a lot!) and what I
could afford each month so everyone would get some
payment each month. As one debt was paid off that amt
would then apply to the next (snowball effect). I
asked for updated statements from them all. All but
one company replied and each month would send
statements showing receipt of payment and the new
balance due. Debt #6 cashed my checks each month but I
never heard a word from them or received a new
statement.

As they were paid off, debts 1-5 sent receipt saying
the debts were paid in full and thanks. Last month I
sent what was to be my last payment to debt #6
($12.91) per the repayment plan I originally sent
them. I had not missed a payment or anything and as
with all the others I requested a receipt stating the
debt was paid in full. The check never got cashed and
I didn't hear anything. I called and was told a
manager would call me back but never did.

So I called them today. The first time I got connected
with a manager, was told to hold and then was hung up
on. I called back, didn't get the manager, was told I
owed $90 more in interest : and when I disagreed they
hung up on me. I called back again, and someone who
REALLY needs Jesus talked to me saying I owed $80 in
interest (do these people communicate at all???) and
that I couldn't set up any old payment plan I wanted
and made fun of me for thinking it was ok to send in
$12 payments!!! I told her I sent in every payment as
was prespecified. I tried to ask why the company never
contacted me if that was not an acceptable payment
plan and she said it wasn't their job. (So what is, to
be mean to people?) I told her I'd had NO contact from
ANYONE informing me it wasn't ok and that I would owe
ANY interest (NONE of the other companies have done
that so far!) and she hung up on me. I called back and
got the same woman, repeatedly asked for a manager
which she refused before saying she was the manager
(promoted in a moment - boy if it were that easy!),
kept interrupting me when I asked her to please let me
speak and then hung up on me again.

I just can't believe:
1. how mean they were to me!
2. I was refused to speak to a manager
3. After 8 months of accepting and cashing my checks
based on the repayment plan they NOW tell me (after I
track THEM down, not after any contact from them to
inform me of this) that I owe them MORE money!
4. That this could possibly be legal! (It's from an
old gym membership from 2000 sent to collections - not
even a credit card debt)
5. They didn't contact me to say we aren't cashing the
last check, this isn't your final payment, we're
sending the check back (hasn't been done) or
ANYTHING!!
6. How mean they were to me!! (Yes, they were VERY
mean, it deserves two mentions!)

So, any advice? I've never received a statement or
receipt from them. Who knows HOW they arrived at $80
OR $90 (and couldn't give a straight amount in the
same day) and whose to say they won't or can't tack on
more...based on WHAT????

All I know is they made me cry 5 weeks from having a
baby and that was NOT nice!
post #2 of 5
I would contact the Better Business Bureau. I'm sure there's also some kind of consumer advocacy group out there that handles this kind of situation, but my pregbrain can't recall it at the moment. I would also write out in full detail what you have done to address the outstanding balance, everything that transpired on the phone, preferably with the woman's name you spoke to, and send copies to all parties, including the BBB. State you refuse to send in further payment until you receive an itemized statement from them. I might even submit a note to the three credit bureaus to put in your files explaining the situation.

Really sucks that you have to deal with this so close to your due date!!! It's bad enough when you aren't pregnant or going through any other major life change/shift, but sheesh! People can be so &%$@!!!

Keep us posted!
post #3 of 5
Thread Starter 
Thanks for the advice and good vibes Colleen!!!

Well I spent all of yesterday freaking out and upset...researched a lot on the internet - and before going to bed was so wonderfully prayed for by my dh!! (Hello - and WHY hadn't I thought to do that first thing? ) So I have decided to 1. Be better informed re my credit report and history and the like, 2. Follow up with a financial teacher I know to figure all my options and 3. Trust that God is going to take care of me!!

After all - I sought THEM out to pay off this debt out of wanting to do the right thing...you reap what you sow and I KNOW I'm going to come out ok in this!!

(And I'm going to overuse smilies b/c they are there! )
post #4 of 5
Yeah... no advice but that sounds like Time Warner Cable. Seriously it does.
post #5 of 5
Thread Starter 
How sad is that??? There should be a serious law about messing with pregnant people!!!
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