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"Natural" or not?

Poll Results: Were your twins conceived naturally or with assistance?

 
  • 81% (66)
    Au Natural
  • 18% (15)
    Little bit o' help
81 Total Votes  
post #1 of 53
Thread Starter 
I was just replying to another thread about wanting more kids and spacing when it struck me that I have never once asked about the other sets of twins here. I had my twins via IVF. Of all my children, the were the only ones I needed IVF for and lo and behold, twins! I know the chances of multiples is increased greatly due to some of the drugs and the fact that they usually put multiple embryos, but it almost sounds like I am the only one here sometimes who has conceived twins this way. Anyone else? Just curious.

I will put up a poll in case people don't want to share publicly that they had IVF. It's private.
post #2 of 53
We had IVF.
post #3 of 53
i was on the pill when mine were coceived I just knew something was not right went into my doc for some blood work and they called me back with a + pregency test.Shock of all shocks we thought it was just one till 20 weeks at the ultrasound and found two babies it was a bit scary at first but then lots of love. It was funny because when people called to find out what we were having when they would guess boy i would say yes and they were like what do you mean and I would say a boy and a ...boy yep we are having twins. They do run in the family but I am the only one so far to have them I still have one cousin too young to be a mommy yet she is 10 and one sister who could still have a set, but I honestly don't think my sister could handle having two at once
post #4 of 53
We hadn't been on the pill since my daughter was born. (She is almost 5). I have only one ovary and alot of scarring on my remaining tube and uterus. We weren't supposed to be able to have anymore. I was shocked when I found out I was pregnant. I nearly fainted in the doc's office when he said twins. But it was au natural here. We surely didn't try for this. But I guess they were meant to be. Just like all the babes here no matter how they came about
post #5 of 53
My twins are from a frozen embryo transfer. I had a few embryo's split before they were frozen and there was a chance that one of the twins was an identical twin to their older brother. The dna tests came back as no but they had were only off on a few markers.
post #6 of 53
I answered your poll (IVF), but for the record I want to say that I HATE this question. Especially when phrased with the word "natural". I've been asked by total strangers if my twins are natural, and it's like implying that there's something unnatural about twins conceived with the help of fertility meds. I think the term "spontaneous" is closer to what you're actually looking for.

I'm not trying to be snarky or mean, this question just really strikes a nerve with me. I admit to being curious about it myself and wanting to ask other twin moms (but I never would)... and the only way I actually answer it is usually when posed by another twin mom. Usually I avoid giving an answer and just make the person feel uncomfortable for asking such a personal question.
post #7 of 53
My twins were spontanious which was actually bizarre. My 2yo DD was concieved via IVF and as a result, we didnt use any B/C. We transfered 3 embryos to get pregnant with her. My twins were spontanious when she was 10 months old. Talk about shock upon shock.....

Tassy
DS 5, DD 2, 4mo Twin girls
post #8 of 53
Mine were conceived on a month that I took Clomid. I actually took Clomid for all my successful pregnancies, but only this last time did I get twins from the deal.
post #9 of 53
spontaneous....I do get asked by strangers too-crazy!
post #10 of 53
Identical girls, same amniotic sac w/o a dividing membrane... totally spontaneous. I was on the mini-pill prior to their conception, but stopped taking it a few weeks before we got pregnant. I was breastfeeding Rach when I conceived Meg and Mo.

Older daughter conceived spontaneously too, about 25 months prior to the birth of my twins.
post #11 of 53
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Originally Posted by nathansmom View Post
My twins are from a frozen embryo transfer. I had a few embryo's split before they were frozen and there was a chance that one of the twins was an identical twin to their older brother. The dna tests came back as no but they had were only off on a few markers.
not a twin mommy but wow, that would be crazy!
post #12 of 53
um, i think my husband looked at me that day
post #13 of 53
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by jackson's mama View Post
I answered your poll (IVF), but for the record I want to say that I HATE this question. Especially when phrased with the word "natural". I've been asked by total strangers if my twins are natural, and it's like implying that there's something unnatural about twins conceived with the help of fertility meds. I think the term "spontaneous" is closer to what you're actually looking for.

I'm not trying to be snarky or mean, this question just really strikes a nerve with me. I admit to being curious about it myself and wanting to ask other twin moms (but I never would)... and the only way I actually answer it is usually when posed by another twin mom. Usually I avoid giving an answer and just make the person feel uncomfortable for asking such a personal question.
It's interesting how one thing bothers one but not another.

I am not offended by the term natural or not, I am however offended when strangers walk up to me on the street and ask the question. I guess here I felt like this is a place where we, as MoMs, share everything else this would be an OK question to ask. And I assume people who don't want to share won't.
post #14 of 53
Spontaneous, here. Same with my sister's two sets. All spontaneous!

I was charting and knew (via mittelschmertz) that I switched ovaries every month: right, left, right, left. I could obviously never tell how many eggs the ovaries released each time, and seeing as how I forgot about that fact, I was certain that because I switched sides every month, I wouldn't have twins like my sister did.

And lo, what should happen on the first cycle of TTC? I ovulate (with very obvious mittelschmertz) from BOTH ovaries. Lovely. I knew they'd both be fertilized -- what 3-parent family wouldn't the universe bestow twins upon?

So yeah, it wasn't so much a gut feeling (intuitive) as a gut feeling (mittelschmertz + double implantation pains at 10DPO).

19 weeks and counting!
post #15 of 53
It just happened! Though I did ovulate much later than usual and my DS was bfing like crazy, which (according to one of my books) raises the chances a little bit. I'm super fertile. I get pregnant right after my first PP period every time. Thankfully that's 14-15mo PP!
post #16 of 53
Sorry to be lurking here when I don't have multiples, but my brother and SIL are due with triplets and have been getting this question a lot. Theirs were conceived on clomid and neither they, nor their doctors, nor I have ever heard of anyone getting triplets from clomid (twins, yes, but not higher multiples). Just curious if anyone knows anyone with triplets conceived in this way? Sorry if OT!
post #17 of 53
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Originally Posted by tatermom View Post
Sorry to be lurking here when I don't have multiples, but my brother and SIL are due with triplets and have been getting this question a lot. Theirs were conceived on clomid and neither they, nor their doctors, nor I have ever heard of anyone getting triplets from clomid (twins, yes, but not higher multiples). Just curious if anyone knows anyone with triplets conceived in this way? Sorry if OT!
I've known of someone who did. I've read that there's about a 1% chance of conceiving triplets while taking Clomid.
post #18 of 53
Quote:
Originally Posted by jackson's mama View Post
I answered your poll (IVF), but for the record I want to say that I HATE this question. Especially when phrased with the word "natural". I've been asked by total strangers if my twins are natural, and it's like implying that there's something unnatural about twins conceived with the help of fertility meds. I think the term "spontaneous" is closer to what you're actually looking for.

I'm not trying to be snarky or mean, this question just really strikes a nerve with me. I admit to being curious about it myself and wanting to ask other twin moms (but I never would)... and the only way I actually answer it is usually when posed by another twin mom. Usually I avoid giving an answer and just make the person feel uncomfortable for asking such a personal question.
Kinda have to agree with that. And it wouldn't bug me at all except for the fact that I get asked that all the time. And so many people just assume that my twins were conceived through AR (they weren't), especially my med-centered friends. It's a bit ironic because my husband and I tried AR, including IVF, for a very long time with no success. And then I started to think I was getting the flu...The "flu" will be 5 months old in a few days.
post #19 of 53
I get asked this all the time... When I got pregnant with my twins, I was 22yo, single, had just graduated from college, and was working as a waitress and nights at Kinkos. (And that's usually my response to the q, "Did you use in-vitro?" et al.) Had no idea, twins don't "run" in my fam, I just got ginormous and got an u/s and there they were, 2 little boys in one big placenta. :
post #20 of 53
I was tandem nursing my 9 month old and 2 1/2 year old when I got pregnant. We were using the rhythm method, which we obviously still didn't have the hang of since this is how we conceived our first two sons. So, the pregnancy was a surprise. When I went in at 20 weeks for an ultrasound we were SHOCKED to find out that I was carrying triplets. : My girls are now 6 months old and we just found out a few weeks ago through a DNA cheek swab test that they are monozygotic (identical). According to a few studies, there is a 7 in 1 million chance of conceiving spontaneous identical triplets.

I get asked quite frequently if I was using fertility drugs even though from everything I've read identical multiples have nothing to do with fertility drugs, IVF or even heredity. There is really no explanation for identical mutiples; it just happens. It does get annoying at times when people ask but I figure that they are just as curious as I am. How and why did this happen??? With those odds, I should've have been playing the lottery. How else will I be able to feed all of these mouths when they are teenagers.....
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