I planned to have a UP/UC, but for DH's sake I gave in and started seeing a midwife during month 7. I still plan to have my UC though and next time I'll do a UP as well. I'm easing DH into all this...
This time DH is really supportive of UC in a way he's never been before, and I am really excited. My goal is to have a really spiritual pregnancy and birth this time around. We got pregnant the first time we had sex after converting to Judaism - kind of cool. It was unexpected since we have a 7 month old and a 28 month old, but I think we'll be just fine.
If anybody has in reccomendations for good spiritual birth type books, I would love the references. I've got Ina Mae's books coming in the mail, but I don't know what else to look at. I try to avoid books that focus on pain since I am a hypno-birther.