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post #21 of 37
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Cord around the neck is very normal and no big deal. Dd's cord was around her neck twice and shoulder once No big deal. Really.

-Angela
Okay The doctors made it seem like a huge deal. Thank you for clearing that up!
post #22 of 37
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Okay The doctors made it seem like a huge deal. Thank you for clearing that up!
Doctors make everything seem like a huge deal Otherwise we'd all know how overpaid and full of themselves they are....

-Angela
post #23 of 37
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Thing is, with all the females in my family who have given birth all had babies with the umbilical cord wrapped around the neck and doctors had to twist the babies around so they wouldn't be strangled...it's happened around 5 times in my family...my aunts, my mother, my cousins.....

So that's what I'm really worried about.......
A nuchal cord (or more than one!) is very, very common, and contrary to popular belief, is almost never a "complication". (The only real risk - and this can happen with or without the cord being around the neck - is cord prolapse, or compression of the cord that stops blood flow. But that is detectable via intermittently monitoring the fetal heart rate, which midwives are entirely capable of doing. It's also VERY rare!)
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I had a birth center birth with midwives. My son was born with the chord arond his neck. His first apgar wasn't great but the second was. They cut the chord right away (obviously) and gave me a shot of pitocin to deliver the plecenta faster to make sure everything was OK with it. They had oxygen standing by but it wasn't necessary. Midwives can do the same thing a doctor would in that case. And, since you didn't have the baby in the hospital, the baby will stay with you. I'd imagine, in the hospital they would take the baby for observation just because even if all was well with the second apgar.
Cutting the cord early is usually unnecessary even with a nuchal cord, and will increase the risk of a low first Apgar score. Babies count on and deserve the continued blood flow (and oxygenation!) that comes with an intact cord!



Looking seriously at all the major complications - the biggest, scariest is probably postpartum hemorrhage. First, it's LESS likely to happen at home than in the hospital! (Pitocin, epidurals, forced pushing, IVs and stress all increase the risk of PPH, as will early cutting of the cord and all the standard interference with early motherbaby contact and breastfeeding that hospitals are famous for.) Second, most midwives have a huge bag of tricks for dealing with PPH, from monitoring and supporting your health and nutrition during pregnancy (and there are conditions that place one in a higher risk for PPH - midwives screen for those prenatally, and either refer you to another practitioner or help you treat those conditions and lower your risk) to encouraging a physiological second and third stage to visualization (remarkably effective!), herbs, and usually Pitocin or methergine should a PPH problem actually arise. Some midwives carry IVs also, and most know how to perform bimanual compression in case of a real blood loss emergency (not only very, very rare, but again, something that is more likely to happen in a hospital), at which point paramedics would also be called.

So in a hospital, how would this situation be handled differently? It would be more likely to not be prevented (very little attention paid to nutrition and wellbeing prenatally), it would be more likely to be caused (higher risk of labor induction or augmentation with Pitocin, less chance of a physiologic second and third stage), they would have FEWER tools in their toolkit (visualization, herbs, and baby skin-to-skin and at the breast aren't usually considered in the hospital as PPH prevention or treatment), but they would have blood available, which very, very few cases of PPH (which itself is very, very rare) actually need.

This is just one example of the types of complication of labor and birth, and how midwifery care and hospital care differ in their approach. There surely are very real complications of labor and birth - your best bet, if you are worried about them, is education! You will learn that (as with a cord around the neck) they aren't actually problems at all, or (as with PPH) they are complications well predicted, prevented, and treated at home.
post #24 of 37
jazzybaby9,
you could try searching for more specific info about nuchal cord/cord around the neck in the Birth Professionals forum. It's been a topic of conversation over there recently. GL!
post #25 of 37
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Okay The doctors made it seem like a huge deal. Thank you for clearing that up!
i would talk to your midwife and find out her perspective. i know that wrapped cords are common and usually amount to nothing but the more information you have, the better!
post #26 of 37
I would have to say one of the biggest challenges I've faced in my planned homebirths is taking proper care of myself. Knowing what to eat to grow a baby is key, and prepping for birth by staying active, or getting even more active. I know there are sites that address teens and their challenges, where you could find like minded ladies as you will here too. A compassionate birth attendant is the key. Finding someone who is familiar with teens, pregnacy, and issues that go with. Although I didn't have my first child until I was 29, I am thrilled to say all 6 of our kiddos were out of hospital births. Here's lots of encouragement for you and your little one!
Hugs, hugs, hugs, I'd send kisses too, but my 2yods has a strict policy about me kissing anybody but him, sheesh...
post #27 of 37
In agreement with other posters Arwyn, your answer rocks!
post #28 of 37
I agree with everyone as well!

Try not to listen to your mother's and aunt's horror stories...or ANYONES, for that matter....fill your ears and mind with good birth stories. Listen to your heart and find your inner knowledge....and do lots of research and find a good midwife if you want one.

My 2nd had a cord and meconium. No big deal when handled without fear and aggressive medical procedures.
post #29 of 37
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Originally Posted by alegna View Post
Doctors make everything seem like a huge deal Otherwise we'd all know how overpaid and full of themselves they are....

-Angela


no kidding!!

i knew i wanted a homebirth on some level all along, even still i found myself going to a midwife at a birth center until i was 32 weeks along. i am so excited for a homebirth!

and yes, read lots! picture your baby's birth day in the most positive, beautiful way you know how...and have faith that it will be even more spectacular than that!
post #30 of 37
Hon, I'd say that being 18 gives you an even greater advantage over the rest of us (assuming the rest of aren't teenagers as well... :Lol) I've noticed several midwife accounts that refer to younger mamas having easier, less complicated births. For example, midwife Peggy Vincent in her book Baby Catcher makes several wry references to the ease with which teenage women give birth. This is the opposite to what the mainstream media implies, which is that it's somehow harder, or that girls your age aren't "ready" yet and need more careful supervision... that's basically BS!
post #31 of 37
I have read that the cord around the neck happens in about 1/3 of the cases. It is caused by an energetic and active baby.
post #32 of 37
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Originally Posted by jazzybaby9 View Post
Thing is, with all the females in my family who have given birth all had babies with the umbilical cord wrapped around the neck and doctors had to twist the babies around so they wouldn't be strangled...it's happened around 5 times in my family...my aunts, my mother, my cousins.....

So that's what I'm really worried about.......

I've had all my lo's at home and all 3 had the cords round there necks, with #1 and #2 the mw cut the cut cord just before i pushed out the rest of there body, with #3 the midwife just hooped it over her head
post #33 of 37
This is a good website and should give you lots of info on homebirths
www.homebirth.org.uk

As i said in my pp all my lo's have been born at home and i haven't had any problems whatsoever and unless there was a serious problem that meant haveing to go to hospital i wouldn't give birth any other way
well maybe uc for next one if can convince dp lol
post #34 of 37
Thinking back I'm sure some of the things that have come up at my birth would have been a problem at the hospital. My 1st DS had his hand by his cheek and I had a hard time pushing him. Not sure how that would have gone over at the hospital. Don't want to know. But I did push him out after 45 minutes with no tearing.

My Dd had the cord around her neck. Not a problem for my midwife. She just un-looped it and I pushed her out the rest of the way.

When my water broke at my last birth, there was definitely meconium in it. I got kind of nervous at first, but my widwife wasn't concerned at all. I gave birth to a very healthy looking baby and they just suctioned him out really well.

So in my experience the hospital makes these things an issue when they really aren't.
post #35 of 37
Yep exactly! *echoing the PP who said everything's a big deal in a hospital* Exactly why I chose not to go!

DS#1- was originally coming transverse (shoulder first) tried external version- didn't work had to do an internal version...didn't notice he was also posterior!! Birthed sunny-side up no issue. Would've been in a hospital though!
DS#2- TWO count 'em TWO nuchal arms (hands up at the cheeks) also born posterior no issue. (was a UC)
DD- cord wrapped around body. Pushed- MW unlooped..pushed again- unlooped and out she came.

hmmmm just noticed the 1 in 3 is appropriate in my case!

All 3 have scored 10 on Apgar...
post #36 of 37
My dd was a shoulder dystocia - so she got stuck and after I delivered her head I had to get out of the tub and my midwife had to maneuver her out.

It's one of those last minute emergencies that you can't predict and can be serious but I had capable midwives and my dd was a trooper and heartrate never even dropped.

I had a 3rd degree tear and had to go to the hospital afterwards to get stitched up - grr but had I been in the hospital they would have given my an episiotomy and I was so much better off tearing...
post #37 of 37
Shoulder dystocia is another of the Big Scaries, but again, it's something less likely to happen at home, and midwives are more capable of dealing with it.

Some midwives will suture 3rd degree tears, but honestly, if they feel they have enough experience to be comfortable doing that, I'd wonder what was wrong with the way they were practicing (not that there necessarily would be, but I'd question it). 3rd degrees are really rare with spontaneous birth - as opposed to in the hospital, where the routine practices of lithotomy or semi-reclining position, episiotomies, and directed, forceful pushing make them not that rare at all.
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