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post #1 of 11
3/1/07 at 3:47am
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I don't know if he's joking, he must be, but bf keeps talking about inpregnating me asap after this!

I'm like stay away!!! :
I hear all you mommies talk about being pregnant and breastfeeding, it just sounds like a lot of work, and I would be scared to lose my milk, PLUS I am done being pregnant for a while!

I really hope he's kidding, I have such a hard time disagreeing with him when he wants something, I always just want to make him happy and give in. ...
I'm sure he's kidding right!?:
post #2 of 11
3/1/07 at 5:57am
Well if you are bfing then it will probably be a moot point for awhile anyway LOL. I didn't get my cycles back until 10 months PP with DS and 14 months PP with DD so getting pregnant back to back would have been impossible for me That is one of the things I love about bfing...

Steph
post #3 of 11
3/1/07 at 8:54am
Where the hell's the woman's right to choose! Not abortion, but birth control. You could use a diaphragm (sp?), female condom, etc, if you even feel like doing anything for a while. Don't give in if you don't want to be pregnant again so soon. It's your body after all, and you're the one who'll have to do most of the baby care in either case. So tell bf to bug off! Men! Sometimes I can't stand them! You need to stand up for yourself and stop giving into him. Loving someone doesn't mean you give him everything he wants, you know.

Ok. Sorry for the rant. (But it's true!) I'll shut up now. It's time to eat again anyway!
post #4 of 11
3/1/07 at 6:27pm
On the subject of birth control, my DH said "well it's not like we will have to worry about that much - it took us a year to conceive this one and it's no big deal if we get pregnant again"

Excuse me buddy! I am quite done with being pregnant for a while - and we havn't even tried the parenting thing yet - what makes you think that we want another one right away if ever!

Anyhow - done my rant! A few days to go with this one and boy am I ready!
post #5 of 11
3/1/07 at 6:31pm
Saw this on mainpage and had to ! Good luck on your birth! And hopefully AF stays away!
post #6 of 11
3/1/07 at 6:48pm
Thread Starter 


I honestly think he's pulling my leg.
When I first mentioned me wanting a baby he was like no ways! but everytime I was ovulating he was on me like a bear on honey. Always asking "you are not pregnant yet?" He's a very confusing man.
This has NOT been easy. I was the only one working before I got pregnant and at the begining my migraines where SOO bad I ened up in the emergency room.

I know he wants a break from pregnant me also, I think he's just excited about the baby, he loves babies and he's great with them. He's just in guy mentality: Pregnant = baby!


Men!
post #7 of 11
3/1/07 at 9:00pm
My dh is already talking about having baby #4. I told him that he has a while to wait since my AF usually doesn't return until 18-24 months after the baby. I want another baby too, but let's adjust to having three kiddos first!
post #8 of 11
3/1/07 at 9:03pm
Saw this on new posts and had to :. DH was the same way for about three months after DD was born. And then her personality kicked in.
post #9 of 11
3/1/07 at 11:24pm
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Originally Posted by Island_Mama View Post
I don't know if he's joking, he must be, but bf keeps talking about inpregnating me asap after this!

I'm like stay away!!! :
I hear all you mommies talk about being pregnant and breastfeeding, it just sounds like a lot of work, and I would be scared to lose my milk, PLUS I am done being pregnant for a while!

I really hope he's kidding, I have such a hard time disagreeing with him when he wants something, I always just want to make him happy and give in. ...
I'm sure he's kidding right!?:
Just a word- I did not have a visit from AF after DD was born, was BFing and DTD *ONCE* with my X, DD's father. I am now an overjoyed member of our march ddc.

Good luck.
post #10 of 11
3/2/07 at 4:56am
Yup....not everyone gets such a great wait for AF.

I get mine at 6 week PP each and every time!

And I follow all the eco-breastfeeding guidelines...just a fertile myrtle here.

My DH is made to STAY AWAY for several months (hehe) and then condoms once I am fertile and I actually WANT to have sex during O time.
post #11 of 11
3/2/07 at 5:51pm
ROFL.... reply from my DH...

"yeah, tell them they don't get to create more babies until they have made it through the first two months with this one, walked 100 miles wearing a baby (DD had colic), changed 250 diapers, and can accurately report how many times the baby woke up last night to bf".

I thought that was a pretty funny list from a BTDT dad.
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