Your Wish is My Command - LoA March 4-10 - Page 6

[captain crunchy]

I have been meaning to ask this for a while. Do you think it hurts or helps me to hang out/date guys that I know I won't end up with, but are fun and amusing in the now? Am I blocking my soul mate by spending time with guys who aren't? I don't mean anything committed or long-term, but I don't usually turn down dinner invitations and there may sometimes be a good night kiss or two

Devon --- (this counts as part of your life coaching )

I think it is totally fine to go out with guys you know aren't *the one* so long as you aren't exclusive with them, because obviously then you are closing off opportunities to meet/spend time with the *one*. There is nothing wrong with having fun with someone and for opening up opportunities for yourself. Look at it as building bridges....

Mr. fun guy may have a friend, or a brother or cousin who is the one --

Mr. fun guy may help you hone more of what you want in Mr. The One ---

Mr. fun guy may open you up to new experiences and hobbies or interests that through your eventual pursuing of --- may lead you to meeting Mr. The One....

OR --- perhaps you and Mr. fun guy part ways amicably, he may go through an awakening or self discovery and wind up in your life in 6 months as Mr. The One....

Point is, to leave all doors of possibility open.

Personal story--- my stepsister (and best friend) met her husband while dating one of his close friends at the time. They realized they weren't right for eachother, parted quite friendly (her and first guy that is), kept hanging out just as friends, and through that became close to my now brother in law (her husband) ---they have been married for 4 years now and are STILL close friends with first guy and his (now) longterm girlfriend.

So you see, leaving the doors of all positive possibilities open is a good thing --- so long as you are still focused on the energy of what it is you are desiring, which is a husband and life partner, and soul mate and don't become complacent.

....oh and nothing wrong with a good old fashioned hot make-out session ...that's just a perk my friend

[*Devon*]

Originally Posted by Zannalyn

Having fun is having fun. I dated lots of people before dh, was even married before. Most of them were wonderful in various ways, a couple are still friends. And when I find myself with regrets, I use THANKS. But mostly I think it's fun to have the memories and the stories and the experiences that have made me who I am. Because finding THE ONE is not, imho, the only point.

There's Pete Seeger song about being old that goes, in part:
"How do I know my youth is all spent
My get up and go has got up and went
But in spite of it all I'm able to grin
and think of the places my get-up has been!"

I figure I'll be able to do that! And I imagine you will too.

I love this! Kerry, thanks for your help too! You all are so wonderful. Meanwhile, LOVE the story about the guy with the van!! I am trying to manifest the motivation (really, lack of fear) to "get up and go"!!

And we are Party Girls! Next week's thread should be called Manifesting Party, how fun would that be! And we can all have our personal chefs whip up a delicious hors d'oeuvre to bring!

[*Devon*]

Oh Tara, I do love you. What you said is so fantastic!! I think the removal of my guilt feelings will open me up to even MORE wonderful opportunities!!

[captain crunchy]

ps -- amris is free to post my foreword if she is comfortable...

I am glad you liked it! I was all happy about it too

Women helping women manifest thier dreams -- ain't nothing better folks...

...well, except maybe a makeout session with a hot guy

[Annikate]

Originally Posted by captain crunchy

ps -- amris is free to post my foreword if she is comfortable...

I am glad you liked it! I was all happy about it too

Women helping women manifest thier dreams -- ain't nothing better folks...

...well, except maybe a makeout session with a hot guy

[Amris]

I dunno, maybe I should keep it secret as an incentive to buy the book.

I'm kidding. I am really thrilled and honored by the magnificent job she did, and I have confidence that everyone who is led to do so, will buy the book. For those not in a place where they are comfortable spending on a book at this time, I don't think they should miss out on Tara's beautiful writing.

Enough of me talking:

Originally Posted by cap'n crunchy

FOREWORD

I was privileged enough to stand witness to the unfolding of Amris’ gift of extraordinary messages one winter morning among gathering of exceptional women. Amris had received her first message pertaining to someone in our group which had come to her in a dream the night before. She was humble in releasing it, but was nudged by the gentle, persistent Spirit which guided her to share the message of love that had flowed through her the night before. With curiosity we encouraged her to reveal her gift and with support we welcomed it into our experience. What emerged from that exchange was truly remarkable.

It is my belief, as well as the belief of most who receive Amris messages, that this amazing and unique gift which Amris has received was always inside of her. It was always patiently waiting for her in the seat of her soul, waiting until the very moment she was ready to fully welcome it. When this gift emerged from her, the results were astonishing. At the same time she was receiving messages, the people who were meant to receive them suddenly appeared. The messages evoked feelings of joy, of peace, of closure, remembrance, and most of all, of love.

To say that Amris’ messages of love come from her is a bit of a misnomer, as anyone who receives a message or stands witness to her delivery of one will surely say that the messages come through her. The Creator of the message (whether you call it God-force, Spirit, or Guardian Angel) touches her with messages so wholly uplifting, that it shines through her like the sun’s rays on the green Earth on a clear day. It has no choice but to shine to all who seek the sun.

The reactions of all who have been touched by Amris’ messages has been inspiring. A few who have received them have felt the call for further exploration of the message and of themselves to gain the full meaning behind it. However, it is truly noteworthy how Amris’ messages of love speak to the spirit of nearly all who receive them. Most who receive the gift of Amris’ messages of love need no further clarification, as it is the precise message the receiver needs to hear at exactly the right time in their journeys.

My own message from Amris was a powerful one, and I could feel the loving energy which flowed from her spirit to mine when I received it. Being analytical in my disposition, I searched my message for a contradiction to my life but found none. The message was truly one sent through Amris, intended to move through me in the form of a whisper into my spirit.
Amris’ messages are exactly that. Humble yet powerful whispers of hope and of love. They will speak to you and impart to you the knowledge of their wisdom. The only thing they ask of you is that you listen.


Tara Higgins Hill
www.sculptyourlife.org

[WuWei]

Originally Posted by KoalaMama

Any thoughts on procrastinating? I would love to hear what you all have to say on this. (And I will come back and add my own two cents when the kids allow it!!)

Well, assuming we are *exactly where we need to be* and there are NO "shoulds", that makes "procrastination" meaningless. I'd say, that it is a space of wonder and joy in the present moment. :



Pat

[*Devon*]

Hey, does anyone want to share photos of ourselves, so we can all buzz by telling each other how gorgeous we are? Plus, I just like to put faces with names! Or is it better to have mental pictures?

Well, anyway, I just posted a bunch of self-portraits in my blog-- see the link in my siggy. That's me!

[captain crunchy]

Amris thank you so much for the extremely kind words! I have no doubt people will be led to purchase this book!!

It was no coincidence that I felt led to write the foreword

[captain crunchy]

We all know you are one hot mama Devon --- I showed your pic to dh and he was like "....and she wonders why guys want sex from her? Well, duh " (that was his bonehead way of saying you were attractive )

My pic is on my site in the *about me* section www.sculptyourlife.org

[*Devon*]

Originally Posted by Amris

I dunno, maybe I should keep it secret as an incentive to buy the book.

I'm kidding. I am really thrilled and honored by the magnificent job she did, and I have confidence that everyone who is led to do so, will buy the book. For those not in a place where they are comfortable spending on a book at this time, I don't think they should miss out on Tara's beautiful writing.

Enough of me talking:

OH, I have chills!! I absolutely love it, and I feel so incredibly privileged to have been a part of the unfolding!!!

[*Devon*]

Originally Posted by captain crunchy

We all know you are one hot mama Devon --- I showed your pic to dh and he was like "....and she wonders why guys want sex from her? Well, duh " (that was his bonehead way of saying you were attractive )

My pic is on my site in the *about me* section www.sculptyourlife.org

Boys! But tell him thanks... I guess? How do I have to look to get them to want to MARRY me?

You are absolutely adorable!! What a great smile and your glasses are super-cute. You look just as fun and wonderful as you are!

[WuWei]

Originally Posted by Linda on the move

I know that so many wonderful things are on their way into our lives, and I'm clearing out the stuff that no longer brings us joy to make room.

Hey, in the decluttering that ShannonCC has inspired me (to procastinate) about, , I had been pondering "Do I need this? Am I using this?", BUT, I like "Does this bring us joy?" instead. That'll get rid of a bunch more stuff that is clutter and hoarding.


Pat

[WuWei]

Originally Posted by Linda on the move

Good Morning!

The sun is shining and the grass is green!

You know, ds said this the other morning. As we opened the curtains, he said 'Mama, let's look at the day. It is Saturday. It is a perfect day! The sun is shining!' And I added 'Yes, the sun is shining and the grass is green!'


Pat

[WuWei]

Originally Posted by *Devon*

: Just think of it like a party... you wouldn't try to simultaneously participate in every conversation going on. Just mingle! Otherwise you'll get completely drowned in all the wonderful thoughts and discussions.

*grabs a pig-in-a-blanket off a passing waiter's tray*

Devon, you are the life of the party, even the morning after!


Pat

[captain crunchy]

Originally Posted by *Devon*

Boys! But tell him thanks... I guess? How do I have to look to get them to want to MARRY me?

You are absolutely adorable!! What a great smile and your glasses are super-cute. You look just as fun and wonderful as you are!

Huby quotes: "We all want sex, don't try to make us NOT want it ---- the one you want to be with is the one who patiently waits until you are comfortable sharing that part of yourself and doesn't pressure you about it...."

(oh and he wasn't trying to insult you in any way, he was just saying most men want to have sex with attractive women, it's not *you* or anything you are doing or not doing!!)




You don't have to look any way but yourself for someone to want to marry you --- you are beautiful inside and out and you are in the process of manifesting your husband --- I have no doubt about that!!

Oh and thank you so much for the compliment

[Annikate]

Tara - that's beautiful!

Amris - thanks so much for sharing!

[WuWei]

Procrastination and laziness are the state of making continual bad choices:

I am reminded of the Chinese proverb. "How do we know?" Is there a "bad choice"?


Pat

[WuWei]

Originally Posted by hula

I'm totally lost after not checking in much over the weekend.
Just subscribing here...

I think I'll mostly be in lurk/skim mode until an actual LoA forum is manifested.
I just can't keep up with these mega-threads.

Jump right in. The water is fine, the sun is shining and the grass is green. Unless you want to manifest snow and we can do that too.



Pat

[Annikate]

It's my *professional look*
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