Why test?

[tuck]

Does anyone know why you still need to go in for a pregnancy test if you get a period after doing ivf? I've had some goopy brown/black discharge when going to the bathroom yesterday and today, so figure its a lost cause, and really dont want to go back to the doctor....Does anyone have experience with this?

[tuck]

I forgot to mention that I am doing crinone, a progesterone gel, 2x day...

[Dena]

Well, I haven't had experience with that, but my re's office says to go in even if you are spotting, as you could still be pg - could be implantation, especially if it is brown and not red.

If it were me, I would go in so I know for sure before giving up.

Good luck, Iberk, I really hope it is implantation spotting and not ugly old af!

[kimberlychapman]

I had red and brown spotting several times in my first trimester. I think the first time was within a week or so of the positive pregnancy test. There can be bleeding from embryos settling into the lining, from minor disruption of the implantation procedure, hormone issues, etc.

[tuck]

Well, it is definitely af. I'm finding this tough to handle. Although I have a beautiful, amazing 4year old son we were really hoping for another child. It is not meant to be. I wish you all here on this board lots of strength, and I hope you all find some way to have the family you are hoping for...

[Dena]

Oh, Iberk. I am so so sorry. I really thought this cycle was going to work. I just want to cry, I am so sad for you. :

Sending you healing, peaceful thoughts, and hoping you can find some comforting during this difficult time.

[kristenok18]

I am so so sorry, Iberk, and my heart is breaking for you.