so frustrated with cycles..

[MamaFern]

its been 5 cycles since my moon came back and its been all over the place. for a while they were suppper long.. now they are getting progessivly shorter my last cycle was 30 days long and this one is 21! i woke up and im bleeding..on CD 21 what is going on!i have no idea where my body is. ive been checking for CM but ive seen no EWCM.. im not sure if im missing it or if there isnt any. im not temping but im going to start because i just really want to know what my body is doing.
my previous 3 pregnancies were all OOps.. without ever knowing what my cycles were like.but yeah. any advise? any good ways to get the body back to regularness?

[zjande]

OMG your DP is feeling drawn to another baby now? Yay!! The last I heard you'd said he didn't want any more, ever. I'm so happy to hear that he's seen the light!

I have come to the conclusion that breastfeeding makes our cycles Absolutely. Crazy. I've been charting for 6 full mos., plus several half attempts before that, & been keeping up reading the threads in the TTC forum, & lemme tell ya, breastfeeding just messes with your hormones sooo much & it seems that women who have regular cycles while breastfeeding frequently are very few & far between! And I have to roll my eyes at myself when I remember all the work & stress that went into trying to avoid all those months after my 1st 2 babies were born! This time we barely tried to prevent & then started actively TTC starting when Xeowyn was 11 mos & I cannot get pregnant!! My cycles are sooo weird! Every single one of them has been different. I do love charting though, I am definitely seeing what my body's doing. I too am barely finding any EWCM & I've been checking daily for 6 months!

This month I've started taking Vitex, B complex vitamins & RRL tea in an attempt to normalize my cycle. I'm so impatient now. I really want another little person in my belly now!

Being in a DDC together again would be the coolest thing EVER.

[~OceanPotion~]

When dd stopped nursing my cycles were all over the place for a few months and I had lots of spotting throughout the months as well. Now 2 years later my cycles are regular but 21-22 days apart when they used to be 28 days apart : . I don't have any answers but I hope things get more regular for you.

[MamaFern]

brown spotting on CD22.. at least its not getting shorter