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I know that some will find this foolish for writing here, but I am beside myself - I just found out that my dog died. She was hit by a car.

My parents wouldn't let me take her when I moved out for college, so she's lived with them for the past 6-7 years.

I am so angry at my mother, so so angry. Reba is a giant, gorgeous, friendly, loving rottweiler. I sought her out, picked her out and paid for her, I raised her, she was my dog. She was always connected to me and my mother especially.

My parents live in the country, their front yard is a highway. My mother would let Reba run, she would just let her out - mostly at night, so she didn't scare the neighbors with a giant rott running loose. I can not tell you how I fought with my mother over this.
She knew it was wrong. She used to promise me she wouldnt do it. She'd swear she wasn't doing it anymore. But she did.

My mother took Reba to the dog park (about a mile from their house) every single day, and Reba ran for an hour, this was their excercise.
But she still let her out.



She was my 'rock' in high school, getting through the tough times. She gave me my first cosleeping experience, she slept in my bed.


I know my mother is devastated, and my little sister had to stay home from school because she was crying so hard.
I've had dogs die before, but this was directly related to my mothers behavior. And I'll forgive her, I know, but right now, I am just very hurt.
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post #3 of 15
So sorry about Reba. I can relate. To some people they're just pets..to others best friends. I can tell you, that as with any grief it does get more bearable with time - but right now I'm sure your heart is breaking. Check out
www.rainbowbridge.org . It has a beautiful poem as well as memorials and support from others who will understand.

Kim
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Thank you, for the support.

Yes, yes grief does become more bearable with time - I know it well. Many family members, friends, and unfortunately my best friend last spring, have passed.
Grief and I, we're old pals.
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I'm grateful, that when I spoke to my mother, I was comforting and kept my 'anger' to myself.

I just got off the phone with her- when I spoke to my father, it was earlier this morning - and all the information hadn't been known.


Reba had no internal injuries, nor did she have any broken bones.
Mother said she was perfect, laying next to the mailbox.

The vets say that she was likely poisoned, they're doing tests - and there isn't any common fertilizers in her stomach.

[She did not have any wet dog food [recalled], so that has been ruled out.]




Wow.
The evil in this world. (Hoping it was an accident.)
post #6 of 15
Omg, I'm soooo sorry Katherine! And how awful to think someone would poison her. I hope for yours and your family's sake, that it was an accident of some kind.

post #7 of 15
Someone poisoned one of our dogs too. Poor thing! I'm so sorry for your loss. Pets really can become part of the family
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My dog died recently too, though we suspect it was a result of the tainted pet food.

It's so hard to lose our furry (feathered, scaled, finned) friends.
post #9 of 15
Has it been confirmed to be a poisioning? I'm so very sorry.
post #10 of 15
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Originally Posted by EricaLeigh View Post
Has it been confirmed to be a poisioning? I'm so very sorry.
Yes, but they have no idea what or how, etc.



I'm very sorry to hear of all of your losses.

pjlioness - did you report your pet? Thats awful.
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Originally Posted by katherinezuels View Post
pjlioness - did you report your pet? Thats awful.
I've been playing phone tag with someone from the Chicago FDA office. I'm guessing she's a bit busy these days.
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im so sorry, one of our kitties was poisoned as well, and the other one just disappeared the same day the first one died, so it looks like she probablty was poisoned as well the one we know died, she and my son used to play when i was pregnant, it was so cute, they were close when he was born (if that even sounds like it makes sense)
ii feel so badly for your ight now having had her for so long and everything, and i feel horribly for her, as well. she was really cute, i like the breed, too
post #13 of 15
Our doggie, Ned, just died last night in the emergency room due to complications from diabetes, pancreatitis and cushings disesase, 1 month after his 12th birthday. His body just couldn't take it anymore. Ned Boy was born in our home (we also have his mother and sister) when I had only one child - my dh and oldest dd were there when he was born and my dh was there when he passed. My 10 yo and I cried much of the night last night and this morning.

I came here, not expecting to find anything on pet loss, but this was on the top. I am SO sorry for your loss, Katherinezuels. And to all of you who are grieving over the loss of a pet. It is so hard. I at least have the comfort of knowing that our dog died naturally. I just can't understand why anyone would poison an animal.
post #14 of 15

I have heard of

people who get angry about a dog running loose that they consider dangerous. And they bait some enticing meat or something with a poison in order to get rid of the dangerous nusiance. I don't think its right, but Rottie's can be imposing and maybe a neighbor ran into the dog a couple times coming in late and got freaked out about it. Rottie's are pretty imposing (my father raised them so I know they can be good dogs if handled right) and scary to a lot of people.

Lorrie
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Ladybug - I am So sorry to hear of your loss, give yourself and your kinders big hugs for me.

homewithtwins - Yes, I'm well aware of this - and its entirely understandable. Thus the anger I had towards my mother, she just didnt understand what the big deal was.
I know Reba, and I know she was wonderful - but if I ran into a rott on the street, (or in a field, anywhere) I would definitely feel intimidated, for myself and for my child.

The couple that are suspected were elderly, and had a huge problem with her.
I'm not sure what my parents can do about this - other than go door to door (or a note in mailboxes) telling people they had recently lost their dog due to a malicious poisoning - and hopefully people will heed caution with their beloved pets.
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