I am lucky that my dh helps and without asking or begging him too. MIL thinks he should do nothing. Her exdh was a lazy slob, he didn't work, he didn't clean, he drank beer and watched tv. YOu would think that she of all people would respect that her son is helping his wife out, but she whispered to Dh the other night when I left the room....I can't believe you have to word hard all day at work and then come home and do dishes (unload the dishwash). He just looked at her and said...don't even start, she works all day taking care of ds and the house, the least I can do is unload the dishwasher. She was pissed.
Oh yes. Of course their sons work sooooo harrrrd and all we do is spend their son's money. Yep.
She is jealous because your husband is decent and she couldn't have one who was.