This was for a birth center birth, so a lot of the normal hospital routines are not included. This was one page typed.

Intro/General information
I am hoping for a peaceful birth. I would like for the birth process to unfold with as few interventions as possible. I would like to utilize hypnosis to help me stay relaxed and cope with the pain. (I will have an MP3 player to listen to.) We’ll be bringing our camera, and if everyone could help us take pictures (time permitting, of course), that would be appreciated.
Things I would like to do/have:
·Pictures taken – I can always delete any photos I don’t want, so too many pictures is better than too few
·Reminders to eat, drink, and use the bathroom
·Suggestions for position changes or comfort measures
·Use of jacuzzi for pain control
·Massage/counterpressure
·Verbal encouragement without distracting me too much from my relaxation
·Someone to reassure my husband that everything is OK and that I’m doing fine. Also someone to remind him to eat, drink, and use the bathroom.
·I would like to choose my own birth position, but please remind me that I want a position that is off my back, if possible.
·I’d like to see the birth in a mirror, if possible.
·I would like to wait until the placenta is out to cut the cord, allowing the placenta to detach and be expelled naturally.
·I would like to see the placental exam, but my husband does not. He tends to be a bit squeamish, so perhaps I could see it while he is otherwise occupied.
·Someone to reassure my husband that my after birth blood loss is normal. (He was worried about me at my last birth.)
·I’d like to be reminded to take ibuprofen and acetaminophen shortly after birth to avoid as much cramping pain as possible.
Things I would like to avoid:
·I am GBS+, and will be declining antibiotics unless there are other warning signs that would indicate their use. (Fever, prolonged rupture of membranes, etc.)
·Because of my status, I would also like to avoid cervical checks and membrane sweeping unless necessary. I would like to be asked if it’s OK rather than informed that they must be done.
·Please don’t offer to break my water – I will request it if I want to consider it.
·We’ll be declining Vitamin K unless there is indication of a traumatic birth/possible newborn hemorrhage.
·We’ll take the erythromycin ointment with us to use at home if necessary.
·I would like to avoid a managed 3rd stage, particularly aggressive uterine massage, pitocin injections, and cord traction. (If they are medically indicated, I would prefer to be consulted before having these things done. )
Thank you so much for being with us at our birth and for helping to make this a positive experience!