My scheduled cesarean was for high blood pressure, and was done on a scared 18 yr old girl who was told "it would help to skip labor". The fact that they scheduled it ahead of time, when it was for something like high BP (and I was NEVER even given meds for high BP..not even when I went to the hospital for the birth) makes me feel lied too.
And then to have them destroy my records after 7 yrs, and go looking for them at 10 yrs to have another baby...
Just because they lost my records, I was not "allowed" to attempt a VBAC "ever again" according to the CNMs and OBs that I dealt with last pregnancy. Forever, if I want to have children, I have to either do it unassisted, or find a midwife who is willing to break the law to assist me. The latter is not very likely, and the former is what I have chosen to do. I came VERY close to having another cesarean, because even though my OB assured me that "this cesarean would not affect my having a baby normally in the future if I chose to" nobody would take that as good enough confirmation that my "scar" was correct (even though the external scar looks right as well). I will never be able to VBAC with an OB, or a midwife because of what was done to me. I hate them so much.