Originally Posted by tapmilkmom
I said it on the other thread, but this misinformation keeps surfacing, CPS does NOT need a warrant to enter your home, only your permission. If you say to a CPS worker, "not without a warrant" they will just think you are nuts. There isn't one! (at least not in OK)
umm, okay, so if you dont give permission for them to enter your home, then they cant come in according to this, but then you say they dont need anything, but can just come in. there has to be something in between here that says howthey can get in if you say no, because other than that, what youve said kind of doesnt make sense and sounds contradictory to what you said before
Originally Posted by Unoppressed MAMA Q
one of mine that i have not employed yet-
in IN, you can legally call CPS anytime to see if your name has any complaints against it.
i think it might be way cool if you could get fifty or sixty people to call every day to check in.
and not to pick on you, but this sounds like red flagging them to you having some problem they need to be aware of, rather than making you look good, imho...
i know another one. dont go to a hospital if youre weak and sick. no, seriously. :mad: :sigh:
definitely somehow find supportive people who will help you
live in a community with a real sense of exactly that rather than just a bunch of people stuck near eachother because thery happen to own/rent homes near each other
this isnt realistic around here, but would help- dont do anything non mainstream except the smacking/spanking thing. if youre normal and go with what everyone ELSE does, theres no reason to pick on you because theres something funny about the way you do things, and even with not spanking, since someone could constrew it as abuse, no matter how light the smack.... that could end up being youre a weirdo who lets their kid run wild...
dont ever let anyone see the inside of your house unless its immaculate
if your child has any dirt or food on them, wash them imnmediatly and change clothes if at all soiled
im trying to think here but even doing things perfectly can make people suspicious in itself, sop in some ways youre just stuck and have to hope nothing happens and you never meet a busybody in your life on top of that!