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post #1 of 9
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This wasn't even MY kid. A very good Dad was very calmly finishing his shopping with his @3year old who was giving him a bit of sass with "No! NOOOO! No! NO!" you get the idea.

A couple of the workers, who are mostly teenagers and young 20s, were commenting but not meanly. More like jokingly, "call animal control." Not loudly or anything.

I got into the line with the guy at the front of it for once not with my children. Another lady is between us. After he finished up, took her out of the cart, and calmly left while ignoring the behaviour - he was doing very well.

The woman turns to me with a very snotty, "Well I NEVER...." to which I said, "I have three of them, and I certainly have had days like that." To which she got very snotty sounding with a "Well *I* never."

I wryly rolled my eyes, and she very stiffly finished without looking at me and bitching a little to the clerk and bagger who were doing their job and being polite without really talking to her or responding.

I actually got more upset after I left. Even though I thought I dealt with it well, I remembered every time my children had a fit in the market in the check out line. I wanted to whap the woman one, and it wasn't even my child.

I feel like yelling at them, what people with high strung children shouldn't EAT because it might inconvenience you? Oh, I'm so sorry I haven't beaten and terrified my three year old into not embarassing me in public. I'll get right on that. Please share your wisdom with us mere mortals.
post #2 of 9
Yep, I've had days like that. Good for you for saying something.
post #3 of 9
I love getting looks for my little kid being a little kid... goddess forbid he is overtired or hungry!

Some folks just love to stand in judgement, they don't much care over what.
post #4 of 9
Oh I've so been there. I'm sure my extremely high-spirited little ball of fire 3 yo had quite a few ppl making those kinds of comments the other day while we were shopping. She was in one of those "running" moods and was having a blast. She was happy and carefree and loud and boisterous. I think the naysayers were just jealous, to be honest.
post #5 of 9
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Originally Posted by gargirl View Post
I love getting looks for my little kid being a little kid... goddess forbid he is overtired or hungry!

Some folks just love to stand in judgement, they don't much care over what.
I HATE that...DH is among them though, he gets so grumpy with DS when we're out doing something and James is being a 2 y/o. @@
post #6 of 9
Before children, I used to think things like the nasty woman in the line-up. The longer I am a mother, the less judjemental I become. Motherhood has become a very humbling experience for me. .
post #7 of 9
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Before children, I used to think things like the nasty woman in the line-up. The longer I am a mother, the less judjemental I become. Motherhood has become a very humbling experience for me. .
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post #8 of 9
: Rude people. Got to NOT love them.
post #9 of 9
I occasionally think those things too. I wish I always felt patient, but sometimes other people's kid bug me. (my kid is always a perfect joy though)

I even say things to my daughter. Mostly though, I am shocked by how a parent can keep pushing a cart through Wal Mart while their four week old infant screams til his head turns purple, and they NEVER pick the child up. I just want to scoop the poor little thing up and give him or her a hug. I can't bear to let a baby cry.

Or, we will see a child being rude and I will say "I SO would have killed you if you acted like that".

My biggest pet peeve is kids in a restaurant. I want to eat in peace (within reason) But, I have been in Olive Garden when a whole family of kids were litterally running up and down the isles, yelling and pushing each other. They played in the restaurant throughout our whole meal. They even sat in my husband's seat while they were pushing each other.... their parents were at least nine tables away. That (in my opinion) is absolutely uncalled for. It is NOT normal "kid behavior". This was a family who should NOT take their kids to restaurants.

So, I have been that person. Depending on my mood. Some days I have all the patience in the world, sometimes I have none at all.
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