No woman should ever
be made to feel guilty about a c-section, medically necessary or not. In each and every case I have ever seen on this site, it was at the very least
the best decision made with the information available at the time. Blaming yourself for what is, in the grand scheme of things, a minute fraction of your child's life just isn't worth it. What matters is being the best, most loving mama you can be.
Control for what you can, and don't worry about the rest. Honestly, so much of birth is happenstance and/or luck. You can eat the pefect diet, excercise every day of your pregnancy, do all the Spinning Babies stuff, etc etc and still
have a baby go into distress during your serene home birth and have to be transported for a c-section. And there are plenty of women out there who spend their pregnancies laying on their back on the couch eating solely fried stuff and then go to the hospital and have insanely quick, easy, and uncomplicated births.
I'm not saying that you shouldn't do your best to ensure a healthy pregnancy and a good birth, or that you shouldn't want things to go a certain way. I'm just saying that self-recriminations after the fact accomplish nothing