I'm a bit annoyed. I feel he's not there for me emotionally, never really has been with our other 2 kids. With my 1st, I wouldn't see him for days. He'd go to work for 10 hrs (leave at 7am), then go over his best friend's and drink, not come home till 2am. I was very lonely, and put on bedrest at 16 weeks with that one. We had a LOT of issues after having our DD that I still can't get over.
He's great to me, listens to whatever I need, but lately I'm just fed-up. He ignores me when I talk, doesn't answer me or gives me 1 word answers.
Won't give me a break away from the kids. I am SO freaking exhausted lately, but nope, not even for an hour.
He doesn't get the hint, although I've told him numerous times that it's too hard for me and it hurts for me to sleep on the bottom bunk with the kids in their room (no cable in there either). So, he gets to sleep in our bed, by himself, all comfy with cable.
There's days that go by and he won't change 1 diaper.
I do all the laundry and he won't take up the big tubs w/out being asked. Now he won't take them upstairs for me at all. Forgets I guess.
He started paying bills online without telling me, therefore taking money out of my checking acct and I came close to bouncing checks b/c of that. They were either getting paid 2ce a month, or not at all b/c he'd take them, forget to pay them, and I'd have no idea.
He never wants to just snuggle anymore, or even sit next to me. He only does so when he wants something, and damnit, I ain't in the mood nor physical shape for that. I did think about using him just to see if we could jump start labor, but I don't know. It's too hard having 2 lil' kids around, kwim?
I really needed to vent. I could go on and on too
How's everyone's DH? Anyone having "issues" like me?
He's great to me, listens to whatever I need, but lately I'm just fed-up. He ignores me when I talk, doesn't answer me or gives me 1 word answers.
Won't give me a break away from the kids. I am SO freaking exhausted lately, but nope, not even for an hour.
He doesn't get the hint, although I've told him numerous times that it's too hard for me and it hurts for me to sleep on the bottom bunk with the kids in their room (no cable in there either). So, he gets to sleep in our bed, by himself, all comfy with cable.
There's days that go by and he won't change 1 diaper.
I do all the laundry and he won't take up the big tubs w/out being asked. Now he won't take them upstairs for me at all. Forgets I guess.
He started paying bills online without telling me, therefore taking money out of my checking acct and I came close to bouncing checks b/c of that. They were either getting paid 2ce a month, or not at all b/c he'd take them, forget to pay them, and I'd have no idea.
He never wants to just snuggle anymore, or even sit next to me. He only does so when he wants something, and damnit, I ain't in the mood nor physical shape for that. I did think about using him just to see if we could jump start labor, but I don't know. It's too hard having 2 lil' kids around, kwim?
I really needed to vent. I could go on and on too
How's everyone's DH? Anyone having "issues" like me?
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: . Mine just doesn't get that part. Plus, I want to hear the good stories, along with the bad right now about DH's. It goes to show how different everyone's relationship is. Plus, look you've been together for 22 yrs, and he's still *that* good to you!! SOunds like you've got yourself a keeper.
: , my dh is pretty cool. He is my biggest supporter, not just when pregnant. He validates me & my feelings constantly. I truly would go 
: without him. When Alexa died, I was so worried we would be come on of those that divorce after the death of a child. For us, it made us that much closer. In fact, he was done with having kids. It is just to scary at this point, but I told him I can not close that door. So here we are 9 months pg, because I wanted it, not him. He cares for us/me that much.
