Wow, what a great birth story! My 2nd son's name is Oliver, too, and born at home. We also did not have the name picked out before he was born. After he'd arrived, we consulted our short list of possible names to see if any fit, and Oliver jumped out at us. Funny thing is, I don't remember ever putting the name on the list. It was in my writing, but I had no memory of putting it there. I think he must have guided my hand to write it, I think he named himself.