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Originally Posted by twopinknoblue 
Those of you that say you have used MJ while pregnant.....did you receive prenatal care? Just curious, because my midwife took urine samples at every visit, and I'm sure that if I were using an illegal substance then I would have been reported.
I've smoked plenty of MJ in my life, but I would never smoke while preg. or BF. I wouldn't smoke it anymore anyway, but that's beside the point.
The fact of the matter is, whether you agree or not, possession and use of marijuana is illegal in the United States, and IMHO, partaking in illegal behavior as the parent of a child is completely irresponsible.........just think of the ramifications. Your children could see you be arrested, be taken from you and when returned your entire relationship with them would be scrutinized by CPS for the rest of your lives........it's not worth it.
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Before I had found out I was first preg with #1 and had smoked some I actually went and told my Dr this, and they smiled and said not to worry about it. Like any new mom I was concerned about "side effects" to my baby and quit - wish I hadn't because I ended up in bed for 3 months straight I was so sick - lost two jobs because of it too.
Every time my urine sample was tested, it was done in front of me for just protien /sugar strips. The sample would have to be taken to the back lab and have a drug/tox screen run on it, and if that was done w/o one's knowledge well that is just scary.
With babes #3 and #4 I didn't get traditional prenatal care, I just took care of myself, but doing that to avoid my urine getting drug tested was furthest from my mind. I wasn't using mj anyways #1. It's expensive and I dont' have a green thumb

#2. morning sickness was bad but not nearly as bad as with my first, so I just dealt with it with ginger and mints.
If said police ever actually were allowed into my house (why would they want a warrent for me, we're not doing things that attract the police here in the first place) they wouldn't find anything. If they did, it would be wayyyyy less than the ounce (that's pretty expensive lol), and I'd get a ticket/fine, not hauled away in handcuffs. If was operating a meth lab -
then I might get hauled away in handcuffs. But I don't plan on doing that any time soon.
I'm paranoid of CPS but I have dealt with CPS (had nothing to do with mj btw) twice, so, I have experience behind me to handle them. I try to find a balance between not living in fear of CPS and knowing my rights, to knowing that there's possibly off the hook caseworkers who could be overzealous.
One mama mentioned not wanting to be "intoxicated" while caring for her young children. I certainly wouldn't do anything I wasn't comfortable with, if you don't like how it makes you feel and don't want to be caring for your kids feeling like that that's fine. I think it affects people differently anyways. It also depends on strain/how it was grown too. If you smoke crap, you'll feel like crap. I'm totally fine with my kids if I have a buzz. It's just like normal for me and I'm totally capable of handling things with my children.
To me being intoxicated is having a few to many

- that I couldn't do. I had one glass of wine w/ dinner last night because it was my birthday and it was more than enough for me - plus my Dh was home.
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