A good friend of mine was in labor this weekend. Here is scenario:
Her water bag broke early Friday morning. She started having minor contractions that dissapated when she went to sleep. Throughoput Friday she was just waiting. The next morning MW came over to check her cervix and discussed induction with homeopathics and/or herbs if labor didn't kick in. Light contractions started and at 5pm we talked about going for a late evening walk to get things going. I didn't get a phone call, so I don't know if they tried the induction methods or not, only that she labored pretty hard through the night. At 8am (Sunday)got a call that she was 8 cm dilated and I thought great, transition and she still feels strong. I figured she would have the baby that day. Well 5pm and I get a call that she is being transferred to the hospital. I was a mess, I had a horrible hospital experience when I wanted a homebirth (that is another story) and I was so worried about her. I just had a bad feeling.
Well, I worried through the night and this morning got a phone call that she had a c-section at 8 pm. The reason given was that the baby presented in Military position and the head was no longer pressing on the cervix making it impossible for her to dialate completely.
Here is my question: Is this a real thing? Would she really have not dialated or was it just something that the Dr. told her? I hate to speculate, I know I should just be happy that she and the baby are alright, but I am livid. I think she was pressured into it. It seems so crazy to me that she could have dialated to 8cm and then just stopped.
Can you help me relax about this thing?
Her water bag broke early Friday morning. She started having minor contractions that dissapated when she went to sleep. Throughoput Friday she was just waiting. The next morning MW came over to check her cervix and discussed induction with homeopathics and/or herbs if labor didn't kick in. Light contractions started and at 5pm we talked about going for a late evening walk to get things going. I didn't get a phone call, so I don't know if they tried the induction methods or not, only that she labored pretty hard through the night. At 8am (Sunday)got a call that she was 8 cm dilated and I thought great, transition and she still feels strong. I figured she would have the baby that day. Well 5pm and I get a call that she is being transferred to the hospital. I was a mess, I had a horrible hospital experience when I wanted a homebirth (that is another story) and I was so worried about her. I just had a bad feeling.
Well, I worried through the night and this morning got a phone call that she had a c-section at 8 pm. The reason given was that the baby presented in Military position and the head was no longer pressing on the cervix making it impossible for her to dialate completely.
Here is my question: Is this a real thing? Would she really have not dialated or was it just something that the Dr. told her? I hate to speculate, I know I should just be happy that she and the baby are alright, but I am livid. I think she was pressured into it. It seems so crazy to me that she could have dialated to 8cm and then just stopped.
Can you help me relax about this thing?









: Where the hand and arm are alongside the head coming out?

to your friend during this difficult time.




