I don't know that any of that is useful since it would just be my word against his.
The other thing that one attorney mentioned to me was that she feels he's a flight risk - he took my girls out & was late returning them & when I called him he hung up on me & wouldn't answer the phone when I called back repeatedly. He's from Mexico & has asked the girls numerous times if they want to go to Mexico with him. I have my Mom & Sister as witnesses to the girls coming home & saying that "Daddy asked us if we wanted to go to Mexico with him, isn't that silly?" So she thinks that I should file a court order for supervised visitation only.
I am the peacekeeping type who does almost anything to avoid a fight, but I've read too many accounts of mamas losing their children because they weren't aggressive enough.
I've been pretending to be back together with him since last night & I'm disgusted with myself. If I knew that we could continue homeschooling, I'd leave him in a heartbeat. This has to be blackmail of some sort, or at least, some form of abuse.