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post #41 of 709
Guess I need to post my intentions for this week too

*to enjoy this glorious weather and play with my guys and just have fun
*to clean/rearrange my room and attic, making room to get the boxes of clothes out of my hall, and getting out spring/summer clothes for the lil guys
*get stuff up on our website for sale, maybe even updating the etsy site, cuz money loves me and is abundant!
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hear back from the fairy fest people, they added a condition to their contract after we signed and submitted ours, so I'm not sure we can still vend there, asked nearly 2 weeks ago now, have sent 2 emails, but I'm sure that they will get back to me early this week, so we know what is going on. Much as we'd love to go, it would save a lot to not, though of course, then we wouldn't be making all those sales, so leaving the results up to the universe
*get lots of rest, snuggles, and still manage to have plenty of time to get my house cleaned up. Got a bit today, but then got distracted by all the warmth and sun

It looks like we have decided tentatively to hold off on moving. We could do it this summer, but it would leave money tight, and as things are we'd have to settle on a lesser house than we want. By waiting till next spring, we'll be in a much different position financially. But that means using all our space wisely until then. So that will be an ongoing project for a while, to organize etc.

Dh has decided that he will be going back to the tattoo shop soon, now just has to decide when. So money will be coming in from there as well, which will be great!

Ok, my 3 yr old Bear is going nuts to pick a smiley, so this is from him . . . :: sticky:\

Guess he had a lot to say
post #42 of 709
mamadedge, have you set her down and said, "Now, dear, about the van. I noticed that it got kind of beat up. I bet you feel bad about that. I just want you to know that I love you anyway, and it will work out just fine."

Remember, you're teaching her how to respond to crises. How would you like your daughter to respond to HER daughter if this happened? And more importantly, how would you want to be responded to if you banged up the car and were afraid of what your parents would say?

Your daughter has brought drama into your home, true enough. But you can start to choose right now how you will respond to that. Will you respond with more drama, or will you respond with patient, calm love?

How will you teach your other children to deal with a disruptive influence? How will you show them that, even if THEY bang up the side of the van, THEY will still be loved?
post #43 of 709
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Originally Posted by Zannalyn View Post
My intention for the week is to focus on allowing good to come to me. I was listening to Abraham/Esther last night and I'm thinking that my habit of always wanting to figure out why things aren't going right, which I do by trying to figure out, essentially, what I've been doing wrong, is a real vibration lowerer, and thus may be the thing I'm doing wrong, actually. If anybody is following me, here without getting : Anyhow, focus on allowing, which means focus on feeling good! tough assignment, eh?
Oh, I totally AM following you! "Everything is easy"....what you're talking about is how I used to practice, because I was felt I was never quite good enough. As a result, I ended up not being as good as I actually was!! (Which is why I'm excited now, because I'm not doing that any more!) Focus on ALLOWING - i like that!



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Originally Posted by Petersmamma View Post
Yes!!! This is what I think. There are people with a victim mentality that attract negative happenings, there are people that set up their life in such a way that makes them more likely to experience certain, and there are people who want a certain bad thing to happen because it is good for them!

But I also really like what Amris said about the reasons why people do whatever.
I typed a great big post about this yerstreday that got lost, along with some comments about Devon's love life, of course. I have such mixed feelings about the whole "you are attracting this" stuff when it comes to, say, big catastrophic events. In fact, the guys in The Secret don't all seem to be gung ho about that (though Joe V. certainly is). I just want to say to Barefoot Mama for the amazing post about Marissa, though. You are a goddess. Really.

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I have no advice for you, but a big

Not that this helps or anything, but my mom and I fought all the time when I was a teenager and she died while we were still in that phase and I know she knows that I loved her and was just being an insufferable sh*t. She does love you. She does love you. She does love you.
Having been a very angry teenager myself once, : And more , Mamadege.

And this REALLY caught my eye.


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Oh also mamadege -- I read in the last thread your dd is on prozac that you didn't know about -- you know that causes suicidal thoughts in teens and children right? Of course not all the time but enough that it is NOT even prescribed to anyone under 18 in a lot of countries -- that may be part of it -- if she feels she needs medical assistance in the way of anti depressants, perhaps switching them would help -- I wonder why the medical "professionals" didn't see that -- the fact that it is widely known that AD can spark suicidal thoughts in people (especially teens)....
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Originally Posted by mamadege5 View Post
I'm sorry to bring this lovely thread down in flames. i have to clear my head.
Please, share with us, we're here for you.

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I am offering much love and support to you and your family. Ask for an abundance of angels to be with your daughter and surround her with love and light. Ask for the highest good of all. And, ask for guidance and follow every intutive thought you have. Please know we are all sending out the most positive vibes your way.
What she said.



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"She spent so much time on the Big Boobs line she forgot about Brains" (not that I say stuff like this about other people anymore...:
I would just like to point out that I got in BOTH those lines! :

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Morning everyone! Just wanted to get in on the first page!

I've missed you all a lot and have been reading here and there but the break I took has been wonderful in that I have gotten a lot of stuff done! I guess that's what happens when you're not hitting *refresh* every five minutes waiting for replies

I'll be here! *waves*
we missed you too!

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Originally Posted by *Devon* View Post
My relationship issue:

Catgirl made me realize yesterday that I think I really do have a blocked mentality about relationships. I think, because of my parents' relationship, that I don't see marriage as a real partnership, and that may be why I attract the guys I do.
Devon, I mentioned this in my lost post.

Who do you know who DOES have a good marriage? What does it look like? What feeling do you have around those people?
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I think this is why I have a hard time manifesting a real relationship with my soul mate. How can I change my hidden, unconscious, deep down beliefs about marriage and manifest a relationship that is a true, shared partnership between two equals who want similar things in life and love to spend time together?
How about "I am happy and gratefl that I am now ready to embrace the inner change that will lead me to a true soulmate."

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Originally Posted by AprilDaisy View Post
Devon

So, for you....realize that YOUR relationship is based on what YOU desire... Not on what you've seen.... On what you want AHEAD.... Give yourself the gift of a good mate...look at it as a gift to be treasured....and know that you deserve it.... Because, YOU DO!

(((((Hugs)))))
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Hi Fek& Fuzz, good to see you around!!!




Jack Canfield says in "The Secret" says about childhood issues: "that's just called so what" -- I don't think he was being flip about it, I just think you could probably do a poll on this thread alone and you will hear story after story of hard times -- failed relationships, childhood abuse, abusive adult relationships etc --- but what matters is what you choose now. That is completely in your power.
: too.

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Your soul mates are out there -- I say *mates* because I think there are several for everyone, my personal opinion. It would be a really messed up God (imo) to put one person among 6 billion that you had to find like some freaking needle in a haystack (and hope they don't live in like Iceland or something!)
Although according to the LoA you'd find each other sooner or later, right?

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d *one* of my soul mates, and he became my ONE because when your vibration and focus is on that particular one, he becomes THE ONE because the others fade away.. you aren't looking for them or focusing on them because you don't want or need them...

Intend it. Choose it. See it. Hold it. KNOW IT....

...then release it and be your bad ass self loving every minute of it (life that is!)...

... and it will manifest.

*hugs*
Yeah, she's right! (As usual!)



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Originally Posted by MsMoMpls View Post
Hey lovely divas!

For those feeling challenged in the relationship area, consider that relationships are the greatest playground for learning abundance. Loving another person is the best way to discover your own blocks to loving yourself. Once you are fully aware of your own greatness and lovability, loving others becomes so much more fun.
Yet another inspiring quote!

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a smooth drive to MA on Thursday with a perfect hotel room to stay in
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Where??? Pm me!!!

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I am so excited that I can add a new affirmation to my new treasure map about how *easy* and *instantaneous* healing is for me, and how my outer world adjust smoothly and peacefully in accordance with my new, higher vibration.
Ahem...EVERYTHING IS EASY!!!! Cough. thank you.


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Originally Posted by *Devon* View Post
Ok, now I'm really going but when I get home I am going to read and digest and I have some *news* to share...
OUT WITH IT!!!! BAd girl!!

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Originally Posted by MsChatsAlot View Post
First of all, if you know about it, it's no longer an unconscious belief!

Second, if you really want to have this relationship you write about...you have to have that relationship with yourself first. When you feel so good about yourself that you know you deserve that relationship, you will accept no less, and that is what you will attract. When you are cool with being single forever or being partnered forever, you will find there is an abundance of men who fit the requirements you seek. Whatever you take to the relationship, you will get out of the relationship.
Speaking of which.....how are you doing on feeling you deserve James...or someone better? Have you written to him yet, or is that on your list of intentions for this week? :
post #44 of 709
Thread Starter 
Dang it, I wrote a reply and it didn't work! That is the second internet issue I have manifested while trying to make my BIG ANNOUNCEMENT!! I think I just want it too much. Sigh.

First of all, Pat, can I come live with you??
It must be so wonderful at your house!! If Tara is the president of the KateSt. Fan Club (of which I am a charter member), then I want to start the WuWei Fan Club!!


So here's my big news:

Well, that was quick! The Universe, she does like speed. It's official. I have found my soul mate! I was about to leave for the gym, so I let the dog out. While I was waiting for her to poop, I picked up the newspaper (NYT) to take inside and started skimming it.
A story about a Fair Trade cafe in Brooklyn caught my eye, so I pulled out the Sunday Styles section and THERE HE WAS.

Josh Bernstein, host of the History Channel's "Digging for the Truth". He's gorgeous, smart, environmentally conscious, travels the world for a LIVING,my heart started racing in the middle of reading the article.

The last line? "I'm attracted to tall blondes. (check! It's not easy to find a tall blonde Jewish (dangit!) girl who cares about the environment." I have always wanted a Jewish wedding...

If it's as easy to manifest a castle as a button, is it as easy to manifest Josh Bernstein as it is to manifest a loser butthead?
post #45 of 709
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by captain crunchy View Post
Tara wins longest non multi-quoted post of all time award!



(those are slow sarcastic claps like in 80's films where everyone joins in)
Did you ever see the SNL sketch "Sarcastic Clapping Family"? :

It makes sense, what you said, as you have said to me before -- what can I say, I'm a little dense sometimes LOL... I just need to be CONSCIOUS of the choices that I am making!

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Originally Posted by celesterra View Post
If you figure this out, why don't you let me know, ok? :

Seriously, though, Devon, you ARE doing exactly what you're asking, it's just that it goes layer by layer. You even state that your beliefs are hidden, so maybe you could start by affirming that your beliefs are clear to you, and easily changing into ********** whatever it is that you WANT them to be.

What a gorgeous day it is in the mid-Atlantic, huh? You're on the path, honey. You can live out your life, and not the life you unconsciously adopted. I'm living proof that it can be done, but I'd love to see someone do it without the pain I've carried along at every step.

huh, as I write that, I remember the discussions about people's beliefs that it's hard to earn money... and I guess I have some beliefs about it being HARD to change my inner world. I am so excited that I can add a new affirmation to my new treasure map about how *easy* and *instantaneous* healing is for me, and how my outer world adjust smoothly and peacefully in accordance with my new, higher vibration.

And now back to our regularly scheduled programming: Devon's love life.
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Originally Posted by MsChatsAlot View Post
First of all, if you know about it, it's no longer an unconscious belief!

Second, if you really want to have this relationship you write about...you have to have that relationship with yourself first. When you feel so good about yourself that you know you deserve that relationship, you will accept no less, and that is what you will attract. When you are cool with being single forever or being partnered forever, you will find there is an abundance of men who fit the requirements you seek. Whatever you take to the relationship, you will get out of the relationship.
Thanks mamas!! I am quoting all this so I can print it out and read it over and over.

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Originally Posted by catgirl View Post
I Devon, I mentioned this in my lost post.

Who do you know who DOES have a good marriage? What does it look like? What feeling do you have around those people?

How about "I am happy and grateful that I am now ready to embrace the inner change that will lead me to a true soulmate."
I think you definitely win the "Expert Multi-Quoter" Award!! I especially like how you leave in only the salient parts of the quotes. And I am so jealous of your Boobs/Brain combo!!!

I really like that affirmation, thanks so much!!
post #46 of 709
Thread Starter 
P.S. Loving the "stripes" page theme.... and also, another great REACH story!!! I lost my denim capris sometime last summer and was thinking about them recently... I used REACH even though I thought they were gone forever, and what did my mother just find in one of her dresser drawers? YOU GUESSED IT!!
post #47 of 709
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Originally Posted by *Devon* View Post


First of all, Pat, can I come live with you??
It must be so wonderful at your house!!

Hmmm...we might be able to work something out. I've been wanting another wife to help with co-parenting and travel companion...


<hmmm...scratching my chin>


Pat
post #48 of 709
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by WuWei View Post
Hmmm...we might be able to work something out. I've been wanting another wife to help with co-parenting and travel companion...


<hmmm...scratching my chin>


Pat
I'm your gal!
post #49 of 709
DH is coming home today! But his plane was delayed six hours so he's arriving at midnight, probably even more sleep deprived than before. I guess he really wants to manifest me getting a waxing before he comes home And maybe a haircut too... I'm growing my hair out but the way it is cut is not working for this length at all.

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Sphinxie, we have a lot in common! I wish we could have coffee....I was thinkning today that I want to mnaifest a trip out west...I was telling ds today how much I enjoyed my one day in Vancouver in 1990!
That would be nice Yeah, Vancouver is wonderful! Especially now :

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Originally Posted by *Devon* View Post
How can I change my hidden, unconscious, deep down beliefs about marriage and manifest a relationship that is a true, shared partnership between two equals who want similar things in life and love to spend time together?
A belief is a thought you keep practicing. Practice new thoughts. Awhile ago somebody made a great suggestion, to read books & watch movies with good relationships in them. I'm not sure how many of those there are though--unfortunately there's this view that fiction requires conflict. Still you can come up with the qualities and scenarios yourself, and then practice them a lot, live with them in your head, as if you were obsessed with a really happy functional soap opera!

Lately I've been reflecting on how I was motivated to change my relationship cause the contrast was just so intense. It fit into that adage that sometimes you have to hit rock bottom and then the only way you can go is up--it wasn't strictly rock bottom but it was low enough that I was really, really focused on getting to a better place! But then I've been hangin' out with my other blocked desires, habituated to them, not strongly motivated to clean up my vibration around them, marching very slowly towards "rock bottom"... well, I don't want to do that! If you don't want to get into post-manifestational awareness (also known as "oops"), you gotta take it seriously even if it's livable. Cause you have the resources, it is easy to change, your intuition will guide you on how to do that, and what I'm trying to learn is that it's your vibration at the moment that matters.

I'm not sure if that made any sense the way I wrote it, but I'll leave it up just in case
post #50 of 709
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Originally Posted by *Devon* View Post
How can I manifest a relationship that is a true, shared partnership between two equals who want similar things in life and love to spend time together?
First of all you have to believe that it is possible. Do you? OR do you tell yourself that it's impossible so you might as well look for "good enough"?

Odviously, I don't know you, but that just came to me clear as day when I read your post. AND since I'm learning not to ignore those things, I'm putting it out here.

I've been married for 15 years, and we've been together for almost 18. MOST of the time we have the relationship you describe. But since we are both growing, changing individuals, there are periods of time when we aren't on the same plane. But those are the exception vs. the rule. We are just as different as two people can be, but our vision for our family is the same. Even as it changes and evolves. We've been in sync. cool huh? That's how I knew he was the one. (Besides making my heart do that flip floppy thing) His vision of what he wanted out of life matched mine.

So, all that to say, Yes Devon, you CAN have that kind of relationship.
post #51 of 709
My intentions this week:
  • Stay spiritually centered. Make time for this no matter what!
  • Have the courage to face some unpleasant financial tasks.
  • Be grateful that the shame of not dealing with said tasks will soon be behind me.
  • Remember that I am not what others think of me.
  • Maintain the order I am creating in my home.
post #52 of 709
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Originally Posted by catgirl View Post
Speaking of which.....how are you doing on feeling you deserve James...or someone better? Have you written to him yet, or is that on your list of intentions for this week? :
I think your question, dear catgirl, is.....does James deserve me?!?!?!
post #53 of 709
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I'm your gal!
Well, I just checked the OSHO Tarot cards and it said to jump in with both feet.

So, why don't you plan a trip to come visit?



Pat
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Is it ok to just jump in here? Some of you may've seen me over on the Treasure Map thread...I am just still trying to figure out the LOA...
post #55 of 709
haha joanna i just came here to throw my hat in the ring over here. i'm not stalkin you, i swear. LOL

i'm learning more about LOA every day from my dear friend Tara (captaincrunchy) and my TM is a work-in-progress...as am i.
post #56 of 709
Welcome to the new Mamas!

Just adding myself to the thread - I'm so glad we've started a new one!

This week I am manifesting:

A smooth transition to DH starting his new job.

A finished loft and painting of our stairwell.

Fresh, healthy meals that nourish us.

An easy and enjoyable dental appointment for DS.

Love love love.

Allowing allowing allowing.

Feeling good no matter what!
post #57 of 709
My intentions for the week:

Pursue myself (sounds like chasing my tail, but it has to do with loving myself, but pursuing myself instead of Dh)

Be Beautiful!

Move my money vibration higher and let money wash over me.

Friendships abound in my life
post #58 of 709
Hi IncaMama! And thanks for the welcome Chasmyn!

Alright, so it seems I should maybe set an intention or two for the week?

I am energetic and able to be my best self for my family.

My home is clean and reaching new heights of organization.

Money flows to me easily and abundantly, from many sources of great good.
post #59 of 709
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Is it ok to just jump in here? Some of you may've seen me over on the Treasure Map thread...I am just still trying to figure out the LOA...
Welcome to our crazy thread!
post #60 of 709
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haha joanna i just came here to throw my hat in the ring over here. i'm not stalkin you, i swear. LOL

i'm learning more about LOA every day from my dear friend Tara (captaincrunchy) and my TM is a work-in-progress...as am i.
Glad you've joined us!
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