am I the only one

[kittn]

totally freaked out that we have started having babies already?: everytime I see an announcement I get happy then freaked out. I cant seem to get my head on strait
can you guys help me come up with some affirmations or something. any ideas?

[MoonStarFalling]

I won't deny I've had a couple anxiety attacks...vbacing at home causes enough anxiety for me plus I get freaked out easily. And the house isn't ready yet. Been coming up with some affirmations and I think it helps. I need to keep my eye on the prize. A wonderful baby to love! I'm strong and I'm gonna do this! What are you worried about specifically?

[emiLy]

It's exciting, and, yes, scary!! Especially because the babies being born are due AFTER mine!

But we'll all have our babies when they're ready. It IS helping me get things ready more, although the one thing I haven't done, and don't really want to do, is decide what to pack for the hospital. I'm kind of making piles of stuff here and there, but I can't bring everything.

"The baby will come when it's ready, and I'll be ready too."

[kittn]

Originally Posted by emiLy

"The baby will come when it's ready, and I'll be ready too."

i like this!

[BrooklynDoula]

When I see people due weeks before me having babies, I am okay. When I see people who are exactly as far along as me having babies, I freak a bit!

[kittn]

Originally Posted by twinangels04

I won't deny I've had a couple anxiety attacks...vbacing at home causes enough anxiety for me plus I get freaked out easily. And the house isn't ready yet. Been coming up with some affirmations and I think it helps. I need to keep my eye on the prize. A wonderful baby to love! I'm strong and I'm gonna do this! What are you worried about specifically?

i just dont feel ready. I feel like im not in control in my head. Im scared because I know once it starts there is no stopping it until it's done. I feel terribly unsupported right now. DH is wonderful. my mother cant seem to see past herself to understand she has a daughter who is very pregnant with three kids and could use help. my "best" friend railed at me the other day when I told her that the idea of a UC wasnt so bad, really . she flipped and used the dead baby card and everything. its going to be hard having her there when I give birth but she is litterally the ONLY friend I have. I have no real life friends, im so isolated and its really hard to empower myself when I have everyone around me that doesnt want to be supportive. simple favors from my own mother are met with such issue it isnt even worth it. I guess that is the biggest part of my fear. so now im just rambling on and on... and on..........and

[richella]

"I connect with the Earth to access unlimited power and resources. All my needs are met. There is nothing to fear."