Originally Posted by Byron Katie
As I began living my turnarounds, I noticed that I was everything I called you. You were merely my projection. Now, instead of trying to change the world around me (this didn't work, but only for 43 years), I can put the thoughts on paper, investigate them, turn them around, and find that I am the very thing I thought you were. In the moment I see you as selfish, I am selfish (deciding how you should be). In the moment I see you as unkind, I am unkind. If I believe you should stop waging war, I am waging war on you in my mind.
That is an excellent excerpt that you chose. So, yes ~ the turnarounds are all about seeing how others are a mirror for us. And ~ The Work only works when you answer the questions.
Are you interested in practicing The Work, beansavi? The only requirement is an open mind.