DD came 3 weeks past my EDD.
I was effaced for 4 weeks or so (DH was checking and had no real idea of what he was feeling

He kept saying, "There's nothing there, I can't feel anything, just something hard." Yeah, duh! It was an effaced cervix and a baby's head pushing down!).
My mucus plug came out with the one vaginal check the midwife did about 2 weeks past my EDD. All I can say is Ewww. It was kinda gross to see her pull this bloody/snotty thing out (it was kinda stuck to the glove-she didn't intentionally pull it out).
I had several false starts, lots of strong but not painful contractions that would go away after a several hours.
But When real labor started (or the serious labor) the contractions started to need concentration for a few hours before they became painful. Labor lasted 51 hours from the time this set of contractions started until DD was in my arms.
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