I just turned 24. This is my fourth pregnancy, will be third child (m/c first). It was an oops, pulling out works as long as you then don't do reentry! Dh is
: right now, I've "known" I was pg for awhile now but didn't get a bfp until today, six days after af should have come at the latest (lesson learned, cheap dollar tests do not work for me). I'm somewhat happy about this pg, it will be my last and I refuse to be sad about it. Dh on the other hand is deep in denial, he thinks the tests are wrong (bought a two pack, took both). But I know my body and I know that they aren't wrong, I am pg. He'll come around once the baby is born and he grows to love it.
I'd hoped for an oops in the past few months but not really, you know? Kind of like a fun thought but something that wasn't at all practical and something I was trying to avoid. He'll likely get a vasectomy after this.
But I am happy to finally be completing my family! I'd always felt like someone was missing and I'm hoping this will alleviate that for me
And I'm sure I'll warm to the idea of it happening before planned too