LEGALLY, I'm separated. I got married in 2003. It lasted 7 weeks before I kicked him out and got a restraining order. We were going to get an annullment, but I didn't have the money for the filing fee. I had my lawyer ask his lawyer if we could split it. He said no. Soooo, here we are, 4 years later (hey! my anniversary is tomorrow!) still married. When I'm a little more settled and secure, then I will file for divorce. Right now, I just can't deal with it.
BUT, I consider myself single.
Oh, and for what it's worth, he is NOT Alivia's sperm donor.