hi, i don't know if you still check here, but i wanted to add my voice to all the thank yous. i can NOT imagine how hard it was to stand up and be the strident voice amidst so much adversity. so glad you were proved right.
i wanted to know, what did you and your husband and midwife WANT to have happen when you transferred, because i think that would be part of healing.
and also, what was their defense???