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Originally Posted by bdavis337
 Ok, so are we all done with the falling thing? Nobody else gets hurt this week!!!
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" I'm like, "Yeah, I'm not... I'm just saying that it could happen and then nothing would get done and besides, I have the energy now... I'm getting it all done before I get too big to do it all in my ninth month. You don't understand how hard it is for me now to get up and down, scrub floor boards, scrub floors, wash loads of knick knacks in the sink (kills my back, b/c I have to stand so far back and lean over); how am I going to climb step stools, climb on top of cabinets, etc. in my ninth month?!!!
" And this is how it's going for 3 days now. Then in a couple of hours, we talk civily, trying to remain civil to each other, and then it starts right back up. 
: So, now I'm at an impass, where I feel like REFUSING to do ANYTHING more in the house until June, and then doing it all either very uncomfortable/in pain or with a newborn. Either way, the only one I'm hurting is myself. I'm so upset, I can't stand the bickering. My mom tried to help me last night, and moved all of the furniture out of the room (so dh wouldn't bitch about doing it), and there was a bracelet under her dresser, which my mom proceeded to scratch my pergo floors with. Dh saw it and freaked. He's like "If you would just take your time and think things through, shit like this wouldn't happen (b/c I rushed to do the room, instead of wait until the END of JUNE to do it). I'm like "Yeah, the bracelet would've still been under the dresser, even if I had waited until June." (My dh likes to "think-things-through" to death, resulting in nothing getting done, unless we fight about it first.) So, now we have a huge gash in our new floor, all the way across the floor.
Instead of getting myself all upset about it, I tried to just "let it pass", which he took as "I don't care." UGH!!! Why can't the world just. leave. me. alone. 
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I will say nothing more than I'm so there with you mama.. and I hope things ease up soon.
I have some big ugly scars going up both sides of my ankle, and lower leg, though the lower leg ones have already turned white! Some days are worse then others but I drink amazing amounts of water, and I think that makes a big difference in the swelling. Do you put your leg up now and then when it gets bad? I find I have to elevate it now and then.
In the long run it means nothing though. Baby to be was quiet the WHOLE time in the water and coming home. Once I got home he started moving around again. I hate cutting my hair, but it dreaded up terribly when I was pg with dd and though I like dreads, I don't like them on me So... it has to be done... You're not the only one 
: I'm glad I'm not the only one too!
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Originally Posted by Mumof3Nic
I was really nasty to Kyle this morning.. I seem to be nasty to him quite frequently so after I dropped them both off for school this morning I sat down and wrote him a letter. I feel I could more eloquently express my feelings in a letter rather than actually talking with him. I get more irritated trying to have a conversation with him so hopefully this shows him how I'm feeling and he has the option of speaking to me about it or writing me a letter back. I hate that we seem so at odds lately.. puberty sucks! |
: I raced around trying to get the dishes washed, and finding somewhere to put all my stuff that was in my cabinets. We thought this would just be a 2 day or so project, but no! Once we ripped out the cabinets we found some major mold on the wall and floor, so we had to rip out that too! We are still in the process of putting the kitchen back together. We should be all settled by this weekend! I had my apt. yesterday with my midwife, and things are still looking good. She said she thinks I will have a small baby, maybe 6 or 7 lbs. Fine with me! I hope everyone has a good end to their week! (And no more falling!!)
. But today I have an announcement: . My little sister had her baby this morning--1st baby, 5 days overdue, 27 hours of labor (poor thing), and all completely natural! He was 9lbs. 1 oz., 22 inches long. I could hardly sleep last night thinking about her in labor and worrying about how she was doing. I have such a distrust of hospitals I was sure they were going to drug her up and section her . Her DH, my other sister and mother were all there with her so she had a lot of support. I wish I could have been there too . I hate living out of state. I was on the phone with my mom during the pushing and delivery so I did get to hear his first cries at least. I talked to my sister only briefly. She's exhausted of course, but says the baby took to breastfeeding right away and they're both doing really well. I'm eagerly sitting by my inbox awaiting pics.
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