Hi, I am posting here before I post in my TTC forum. We have been trying to get pregnant for quite some time, and have primary infertility. April 2nd was LMP, and I took Clomid 100mg days 5-9 On CD 30, I had a negative HPT with ovulation being day CD 17 CD 31, I went into the ER for extreme pelvic pain, was informed I was pregnant. I also had a ruptured ovarian cyst that an u/s revealed.
Also during that u/s the ER doc said he couldnt find a pregnancy anywhere, so I was sent to radioolgy. Radiology said the same thing, and I was told to have a follow up, because they didnt see a pregnancy in my uterus or an ectopic. So today I had my followup. The ER doc made me feel like I should have NO hope whatsoever, so I kind of dont.
Today, at exactly 5 weeks since LMP, my HCG is just over 1,000...... not sure what the numbers were in the ER. The doctor came in and she said congrats, and gave me a big hug *nicest doc ever* When doing the u/s she found the gestational sac, but no fetal pole I dont know if I should be worried. Is it just too early to tell? I have to go back on Wednesday, but feel optimistic, very, very, very caustiosly optimistic.
All I keep coming up with when I google it is a blighted ovum, and dont know if I could deal with another pregnancy loss at this point.
So, to all you pregnant mamas out there, can someone please help me understand when a fetal pole should be present? We want this to be true so badly, but are so fearful. All I want is to see that lil bean on the moniter, and hear a heartbeat. Any words of wisdom?
Also during that u/s the ER doc said he couldnt find a pregnancy anywhere, so I was sent to radioolgy. Radiology said the same thing, and I was told to have a follow up, because they didnt see a pregnancy in my uterus or an ectopic. So today I had my followup. The ER doc made me feel like I should have NO hope whatsoever, so I kind of dont.
Today, at exactly 5 weeks since LMP, my HCG is just over 1,000...... not sure what the numbers were in the ER. The doctor came in and she said congrats, and gave me a big hug *nicest doc ever* When doing the u/s she found the gestational sac, but no fetal pole I dont know if I should be worried. Is it just too early to tell? I have to go back on Wednesday, but feel optimistic, very, very, very caustiosly optimistic.
All I keep coming up with when I google it is a blighted ovum, and dont know if I could deal with another pregnancy loss at this point.
So, to all you pregnant mamas out there, can someone please help me understand when a fetal pole should be present? We want this to be true so badly, but are so fearful. All I want is to see that lil bean on the moniter, and hear a heartbeat. Any words of wisdom?







: I hope tomorrow's u/s is good news!




at tricare right now. I spent all morning yesterday getting the pregnancy test for the referral (you don't need an appt you just walk in - oh, wait, no you needed an appt for that but it looks like we can get you in in just 3 hours) Then the rest of the morning dealing with tricare (well, yes, cnm are technically covered but the mtf won't authorize it).