i've been an exhausted, uncomfortable, anti-social insomniac for the past few weeks. the only people i want to see are my closest friends & family and otherwise i've been holing up in the house & yard. but....dh can't seem to get it!? last week all the kids in the neighborhood were playing outside so i took the girls across the street. i wasn't particularly enjoying the parental small talk but the girls desperately needed to play. when dh got home from work, what did he do? he invited the neighbors over for dinner! (right in front of me without discussion or anything). and to top it off, he fiddled around while leaving me to prepare everything. of course, i discussed this with him later & he apologized. but....he did the same thing today!? he just called saying he invited one of his co-workers over for dinner. what? my parents are coming to town today & he invited someone over? we got in a spat over the phone & he ended up backing off but now he'll have to tell his co-worker i said "no." this makes me batty! i'm really a very social, kind person but how many times to i have to emphasize that right now i don't want to be around people i don't really know? ugh.....
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5/8/07 at 10:56am