Has she considered a second opinion???? I have them, and they were terrible to me with my last pregnancy. Maybe not quite as sever as what you describe, but close. I asked my OB at hte time about it, he was actually a very good, non-interventive doctor and he told me that it was of course most uncomfortable at the end of pregnancy, but in most cases as baby comes thought the body manages to compensate and the blood will move and essetially sqeeze out of the way. That there was more concern of watching for a clot developing at the end of pregnancy, that there was trouble at delivery and the bursting is really not that common.
this is the only experience i have had with this and I know i have a fairly difficult delivery of a large baby, naturally without intervention and no complications. All went as he had described. Now recovery was painful, but im certain much less so than a rediculous c-section.
I think she should talk to someone else. not in the same practice.
If she is already delivering in the hospital, it seems that dealing with the possibily of a complication would be much better than a c-section and the complications that are possible with that.
most drs will find it is easier to steer people toward section, because then they have control. They dont have to worry about a law suit due to something during delivery going wrong. and they. They dont want to take any risk, it is to expensive and too much trouble. Then they might actually have to pay attention to a patient and deal with a problem. They are comfortable doing surgery.
those are my thoughts