Ok if no one wants to read this its ok with me just need to get this out. I have a friend who has been more or less not thrilled that I got pregnant again. She has a 18 month old son and has been trying to talk her hubby into another one for a while but he doesn't want to so i think she is jealous. But she says that I have no idea what I'm in for and I'm too young to be having 2 little ones in diapers at the same time and with my sons impending problems (we are not sure what his limits are going to be and he might not have any) I'm taking away time with him by having another baby so soon and that I'm not going to be able to give him all of my love and care with another baby around. I think she is totally nuts and she is basically calling me a kid, I'm 20 and she is 26, my DH is 22. She even told me to give my baby to a couple who can afford it and who wants to have another baby. I couldnt believe she even said it. Basically she thinks that we cant afford it and I'm going to hate it and that I'm going to complain to her about it and she doesn't want to hear it. She is a great friend and I really enjoy her as a friend because she knows a lot more than I do about being a mom and I look up to her and I have told her that but she wants nothing to do with me being pregnant again and I hate it, Its like Im suposed to not talk about it because she is jealous. Well I'm sorry for her because if we don't stay friends because of this whole thing she is going to miss out on having a great friend and having friends for her son. So should I just cut my losses and quit dealing with her crap thats stressing me out or should I try to make this friendship work?
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5/11/07 at 2:51am