My husband knows I am sick.
He knows I am sicker in the evenings.
My friend and her husband know I am sick.
This has not changed for 6 weeks!
So why are they calling me to ask me if I want to get together this evening? They miss getting together socially. Hubby knows I get sicker and sicker as the night goes on and I am dying to go to bed by 8 or 9pm.
Yet on his way home, he calls me to tell me he won't be home until then and would I want to do something with our friends while simultaneously, she's calling me three times on my cell phone. I didn't answer her calls. I felt bad for not answering but SHEESH!
Guilt guilt guilt always about how I am not ever seeing friends anymore. I am miserable when I am and have to go home early! My friend is really pouting 'cause she can't see me and when I do see her she waits on me hand and foot and tells me she'll handle the kids and everything. That's nice, but it makes me feel even worse. I sit there half asleep and barely talking.
Just leave me alone for a few months until I can come around again. PLEASE.
And I asked hubby why he would think I could do something tonight and he said something about how SOMETIMES I feel better and I feel better when I get outside the house. That was 5 weeks ago, hon. You haven't been listening lately, huh?
*sigh*
/vent
He knows I am sicker in the evenings.
My friend and her husband know I am sick.
This has not changed for 6 weeks!
So why are they calling me to ask me if I want to get together this evening? They miss getting together socially. Hubby knows I get sicker and sicker as the night goes on and I am dying to go to bed by 8 or 9pm.
Yet on his way home, he calls me to tell me he won't be home until then and would I want to do something with our friends while simultaneously, she's calling me three times on my cell phone. I didn't answer her calls. I felt bad for not answering but SHEESH!
Guilt guilt guilt always about how I am not ever seeing friends anymore. I am miserable when I am and have to go home early! My friend is really pouting 'cause she can't see me and when I do see her she waits on me hand and foot and tells me she'll handle the kids and everything. That's nice, but it makes me feel even worse. I sit there half asleep and barely talking.
Just leave me alone for a few months until I can come around again. PLEASE.
And I asked hubby why he would think I could do something tonight and he said something about how SOMETIMES I feel better and I feel better when I get outside the house. That was 5 weeks ago, hon. You haven't been listening lately, huh?
*sigh*
/vent
Then they seem kinda selfish for thinking of themselves in wanting you around for them, while not thinking of how it is for you.
If you would like to help call DH & set up play dates, cleaning times or meal times with him.
