With all the recent threads on the topic of paying off a mortgage early, or not, I'm curious what folks think is the ideal length of a mortgage. I've seen the math showing how much less you pay over 15 years versus over 30, but also the counter-math for what investing the same amount of money might have done for you instead. If paying a lower amount for longer, freeing up cash flow for investing, is always better, than why not get a 40- or 50-year mortgage? I mean I'm being a little facetious but I'm just curious about why 30 years seems like the most common way to go. Is it mainly so you'll have it paid off before retirement?
Our situation is that we're two years into an interest-only 30-year ARM. And since I know that alone will elicit some knee-jerk criticism, I just want to say that we're aware of the risks of interest-only and ARM mortgages -- given our situation when we bought it made a lot of sense at the time and still does and we have no buyer's remorse whatsoever. BUT, we intend to re-finance in about two years, before the point that our interest rate would adjust up (by as much as 2 percent, it's currently 5.125%).
So ANYway, when we go to re-finance I guess we need to decide on 15 years versus 30. We could easily afford to the payments on a 15-year mortgage rather than a 30-year, I'm just wondering if that goes counter to the advice of "save for retirement rather than pay off your house early." If we re-finance two years from now for 15 years, the house would be paid off when DH is 62 and I'm 50. If we go for 30 years instead, we would be 77 and 65 at pay-off.
I really did not think this far ahead when marrying DH, not that it would have changed my mind, but I'm looking ahead to when I'm say in my mid to late 50's, have kids in college, and have a DH who most likely is no longer earning income and possibly even beginning to have health issues. DH is used to me being uptight about spending, but it used to be, "We can't buy that because we have other bills to pay," and now it's "We can't buy that or I'll end up eating cat food when I'm eighty and you're dead and gone!"
We are pretty committed to putting everything we can into retirement and our house, and when our kids are college-age we will help to the extent we can out of current earnings at that time.
Sorry this is so rambly but is 15 or 30 years the way to go? Are their resources addressing financial/retirement planning when there is a significant age gap between partners?
Our situation is that we're two years into an interest-only 30-year ARM. And since I know that alone will elicit some knee-jerk criticism, I just want to say that we're aware of the risks of interest-only and ARM mortgages -- given our situation when we bought it made a lot of sense at the time and still does and we have no buyer's remorse whatsoever. BUT, we intend to re-finance in about two years, before the point that our interest rate would adjust up (by as much as 2 percent, it's currently 5.125%).
So ANYway, when we go to re-finance I guess we need to decide on 15 years versus 30. We could easily afford to the payments on a 15-year mortgage rather than a 30-year, I'm just wondering if that goes counter to the advice of "save for retirement rather than pay off your house early." If we re-finance two years from now for 15 years, the house would be paid off when DH is 62 and I'm 50. If we go for 30 years instead, we would be 77 and 65 at pay-off.
I really did not think this far ahead when marrying DH, not that it would have changed my mind, but I'm looking ahead to when I'm say in my mid to late 50's, have kids in college, and have a DH who most likely is no longer earning income and possibly even beginning to have health issues. DH is used to me being uptight about spending, but it used to be, "We can't buy that because we have other bills to pay," and now it's "We can't buy that or I'll end up eating cat food when I'm eighty and you're dead and gone!"
We are pretty committed to putting everything we can into retirement and our house, and when our kids are college-age we will help to the extent we can out of current earnings at that time.
Sorry this is so rambly but is 15 or 30 years the way to go? Are their resources addressing financial/retirement planning when there is a significant age gap between partners?








