We spent a while last summer researching banks and were going to go with New England Cryogenic Center. Partly because they are local and that cut down on transportation costs. But I did want to let you know that we had two preliminary donor choices (both ID release, which they definitely have if you want) and we talked to them a bit about the process, those donors specifically, etc. They were super nice and helpful, which definitely makes a difference in this process. So, that's not much help, but perhaps just a tiny tidbit about NECC.
Good luck!!!! And hugs, as I know this is/has been quite a process for you and Turtle.
megin