If you are non-confrontation (I tend to be like that
) I probably would say "We haven't decided yet" or something along those lines. Non committal.
When I was pregnant with DS and found out that he was a boy people would ask what we were going to name him. We told them a luckily people liked the name.
When I do find out with this little one and people ask us his/her name I am prepared for people not to like it.
If they say anything negative my reply is going to be "DH and I like it and its not up to you" or "Why bother asking if you are going to be negative about it?".
It may seem rude to some people but to me that is rude and hurtful if they say things like "oh, well, it's not something i would choose..." or "i'll let you know what i think in a few days, maybe it will grow on me..."
Warren is not a horrible, wierd or unlikeable name to me. Warren is perfectly fine! Trust us. It isn't a name that a boy is going to be embarrassed about.
Now if you were going to name your son "Shadow" then maybe that is a name that you may re-consider if people are pulling faces but still ... it is your DH and your choice ... no one elses. Don't let other people stop you from doing what your heart really wants.
to you as well.