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Pics of little Ulysses--Finally!  

post #1 of 19
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Ok, now for the quick run-down of what happened... (I've got about 5 mintues of free-time left!)

Water broke on Friday. Labored sporadically over the weekend. Amniotic sack re-sealed. Water rebroke. Water resealed. Husband calls m/w every night...

Monday: Went to m/w's back-up physican over the weekend to ease the minds of husband and family that the baby was OK. Baby was fine. Back-up physican broke my water "on accident" during examination. I'm 5cm and totally effaced. Ultrasound showed perfectly healthy baby boy... Labored all night. Husband called m/w but I wasn't ready. Midwife went home.

Tuesday: Husband calls m/w, she comes over and we all share a long talk. My labor always miraculously stops when she comes over. The baby is really low and I'm starting to complain of some odd pain in my butt. It's like a charlie horse in the colonic sphincter that runs parallel to the cervix. Apperantly all of the start-stop labor has really irritated it. I figure this out after the midwife leaves around 4pm and I really, really go into labor and it hurts HIJJUS. The contractions I can deal with, but the pain in my posterior becomes excruciating. I lie down on the bed and press my sacrum with the weight of my whole body.

Around 11 pm I tell my husband to call the m/w. The pain is damn near unbearable and I'm certain that it's interfering with my cervix's ability to do it's job. M/W arrives and I'm right--I'm still only 5cm. We make the decision to transport.

12pm, Wednesday morning. We arrive at the nearest hospital (3 miles away) and prepare for maltreatment by mean doctors and nurses. This, it turns out, was totally unecessary. I could not have planned a better transfer scenario. The physican on call was a 30 year veteran and proponent of homebirth as was several members of his staff. The nurses were kind and helpful. They checked me and the baby out and decided it was safe to allow me to continue to labor but with the aid of an epidural.

Ha ha.

The epidural effectively took the pain of the contractions away but did nothing for the pain in my butt, which was well beyond any pain I've ever felt. I could not move without terrible suffering. I hollered like a big dummy everytime I was expected to move. I labored like this for an additional 6 hours and there was still no cervical change. The baby was still fine, but his little head was starting to swell where my cervix was pounding away at it. Dr. Reco'd a C-section. I agreed. The wheeled me into surgery and tried to give me a local. Didn't work. They tried a few different ways to numb me but they failed. I'm wailing like a banshee the whole time. It didn't take long before I was completely knocked out (with my permission).

Waking up was a little weird but I sure felt better! No more pain in my butt! I felt fine--tired, but fine. They got the little one out so fast he suffered no ill effects from the anesthesia and according to my midwife (who was right outside the surgery room doors) he came out screaming just like his mama had been right before the aneshesia kicked in... . After this it was all gravy . He was brought to me after I woke up and started breastfeeding straight-away.

Darn, can't finish my story. Little Uly needs his mama!

Cheers,

Tomi
post #2 of 19
He is sooo adorable! Congrats. I'm sorry your birth didn't go as planned but it sounds like you had nice medical staff that respected you. Enjoy your babymoon and thanks for sharing your story and pics!
post #3 of 19
Oh my goodness! Congrats on the adorable one (he is SUCH a cutie)!

I wish your birth had gone more smoothly, but I'm so happy your home and healing and your little one is doing well! You totally ROCK!
post #4 of 19
congratulations! What a sweetie!
post #5 of 19
congrats... sooooo cute!
post #6 of 19
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Thanks guys--I think he's pretty cute

The thing about our birth is, I don't regret it at all. We were prepared and excited for a homebirth and because of our prep we felt like going to the hospital was the right thing to do. In the wierdest way we followed our birth plan to a "T". We never endangered out baby and as soon as my labor ceased to progress in a normal, healthy fashion we moved smoothly into plan B, and then eventually to plan C. Even though I was in great pain I never felt as though I was out of control or victimized. In fact, I'm certain that the whole experience was far more traumatic for my husband than for myself, and I think little Uly was probably ready to get his head out of my cervical vice-grip

Thanks so much guys for your support. Now that I've got a little routine down I've been able to carve a little more time for myself and I'll be able to check back in here with you guys and see how ya'll are doing.

Happy Birthing!!
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post #8 of 19
Congratulations! He is so adorable. Makes me want to meet my little guy even more.

I'm glad that you have no regrets & that the experience, although less than ideal, had a positive outcome. I'm glad that the hospital staff was nice. Ultimately, what matters in the end is that you & Uly are healthy.
post #9 of 19
well done for coping with such a long labour, he is really gorgeous
post #10 of 19
I love the sunscreen picture! Did he have a little jaundice?

I'm so happy that you felt good about the birth you got. I hope you've "forgiven" your butt for causing you so much trouble.

I also wanted to tell you how much I appreciated that you got your DH to post and let us know you'd had your baby. I hate waiting too long for updates.

--willo
post #11 of 19
Congrats mama!!!!! I love his tanning pic, he is beautiful!!!!!!
post #12 of 19
What a cutie, just seeing his picture made me think, "oh my gosh I have one of those precious babies inside me right now", a sureel moment. Congradulations!!
post #13 of 19
He is gorgeous! I love the 'sun glasses' - my first two needed those, too. I was also put under general for my 2nd c-section (failed vbac) - it's weird, isn't it? But glad to hear that everything is going well now.

Where did you get those tiny cloth diapers? I have to wait til my squirt is bigger to fit in ours.
post #14 of 19
Wonderful! And congratulations! Hope he didn't have to be "under the lights" for long... my first had many days of lights in the hospital, but my DS, we were able to bring him home right away & use the "biliblanket" at home... what a difference. & no sunglasses!

He's a cutie pie... congrats!
post #15 of 19
Great pictures! Congratulations on his birth, and also on your stamina. What an experience--so glad you're all doing well.
post #16 of 19
hes so cute!!

im so glad that even though it wasnt the birth you had planned, it turned out to be a good one!

congrats!!
post #17 of 19
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...Where did you get those tiny cloth diapers? I have to wait til my squirt is bigger to fit in ours.
Kissaluvs size zero--I got them used on Ebay just before they quit allowing the sale of used diapers.

How big is your little squirt now??
post #18 of 19
Congratulations! He is just beautiful! I'm glad you were treated so well at the hospital and that everything came out well for you!
post #19 of 19
congrats....makes me want to hold my baby......Due June 13th....

hoping for sooner.


Miriam
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