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post #21 of 307
Helen said I'd better my karma if I came & got caught up with our nov05 ddc thread.



spughy, what I would personally do is sternly say "Ow, don't pinch mama!" & not offer or respond to the post-pinching kisses. Xeowyn likes to try to scrape my moles off with his little razor nails. OMG that hurts! He's been doing it for months & months. I sternly say "Ow, don't scratch mama!" & push his hand away. Sometimes he stops for the rest of the day or so, sometimes not. Sigh. I remind myself that it's a phase. Sometimes he's so obsessed & I'm so fed up that I breastfeed him with my left arm held way up so he can't reach the stupid mole on the my arm! His favorite time to try to scrape me to pieces is while bfeeding.

My cousin's 15 mo old loves to dig his scrapey nails deep into her arm pit while he's bfeeding!

Oh the joys of the abuse we get from our beloved children.

Xeowyn has had an explosion of new words lately! It's been so fun, & soooooo cute. He really wasn't saying a whole lot of words before, & never 2 word sentences. All of the sudden he's saying new words almost every day, & started saying "all gone!", his 1st 2 words put together. He's a major copy cat & will repeat the last word of any sentence he overhears which is so funny. I'll say "How's it going?" to my other kids & he'll pipe up & say "GOING!" And my older kids entertain themselves by trying to get him to say things like "Duck butt" & "mama's booty". It has been so cute & fun.

He's also being aware of when he's about to pee, or right afterwards & will grab his diaper & say "pee pee!". So we're going to experiment with a potty chair soon.

The weather's been hottie hot, so he's been enjoying running around naked in the backyard, playing with dirt clods & other fun toddler games. My DH was worried that the chickens would mistake his penis for a worm so asked that I diaper him when the chickens are out.

I'm 11 weeks along today & feeling much better than I did a month ago, but still far from normal. Food still grosses me out & I'm tired but not sleeping well. But I am still breastfeeding with no problems ( : : ) & I have a belly bump!!

My exciting plans for today are to clean stuff. That's really about it.
post #22 of 307
Hey Zjande, do you let your kids go barefoot in the yard with chicken poop around? I'm undecided as to whether it's actually a health hazard or just yucky. (I'm ok with just yucky )

Thanks for the advice. I've talked it over with DH and we're going to keep discouraging the pinches ("ow that hurts mummy/dada/grandma. Please stop pinching") and completely ignore the make-up kisses.

Oh and I know what you mean about the moles. Rowan LOOOVES moles. She points to them and says "mole! mole!" She has only one - on her leg - and she is very proud of it. Fortunately, she doesn't try to pick mine off (OOOWWW!!)
post #23 of 307
Well *I* always let him go barefoot but DH doesn't. Truthfully, I don't worry about it. I figure, people have been living with chickens for a zillion years, Xeowyn doesn't lick his feet, lol, & we always wash our hands & feet the moment we step inside. I rarely wear shoes myself. SHOES are yucky!! Plus, backyard flocks are rarely unhealthy, it's the factory farms that are filthy & neglected & spread diseases such as avian flu & then make it all worse by giving all the animals antibiotics with every meal so the bacteria become ever more immune & it's a vicious cycle & I HATE the huge inhumane corporations & how they are ruining our world!!!

Ah, vent over.
post #24 of 307
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Man Aubrey, you sure have some awesome links on your blog. I want to sit and read all of them! But I think I will take a nap.

We found a sitter for tomorrow night!! YAY!! So this will be like our second date since Brynn's birth. Yippee!
post #25 of 307
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Man Aubrey, you sure have some awesome links on your blog. I want to sit and read all of them! But I think I will take a nap.

We found a sitter for tomorrow night!! YAY!! So this will be like our second date since Brynn's birth. Yippee!
Thanks, Amy! You know what's totally depressing, I have plans to add a bunch more links I love, & had been amassing some awesome links regarding plastics, Teflon, food labeled "organic" & "free-range" & what the *really* means, etc. on my computer's bookmarks list. Then some bizarre thing happened (we still can't figure out what) & one day the entire bookmarks list had been deleted! I wanted to cry! Between my frustration over that & my pregnancy-induced introversion, I haven't been working on my blog lately. But I'll get back to it eventually. I'm so glad you even glanced at my links, thanks!

Enjoy your Hot Date.

There Helen, 3 posts already this morning! Do I get my karma points now? Heehee.
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Amy, hadn't you heard?
I'm due the same day as Strawberryfields and Honeytree (better known as BeTheEarth) How cool is that? 2/2, in case you were wondering- but my pesky doctor insists I have to go by LMP. Makes me 3 days further along Right now I'm feeling beautifully, happily nauseous.
Well, last I remember you were saying you were like 31 days, and you still hadn't seen the midwife. So I wasn't sure where you were exactly. But Yay! That's gorgeous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I still haven't seen the midwife. I've seen my GP, who laughed when I asked if she wanted to see the test, is ignoring my beautiful spiky chart and insisting on using LMP (she's bloody lucky this is an abnormal cycle for me and I ovulated early. 9 weeks isn't that uncommon, and then where would she be?) has referred me to the midwives for care, the NHS for free prescriptions and the hospital of my choice for scans. (Oxford let kids in. Swindon don't.) She's also seeing me in a couple of weeks time to talk about whether I want an early scan or not, though that would be at Swindon. So yeah, it was a fairly productive day.

Zjande, you may now have your karmic points back, along with your appetite Go eat something yummy, and enjoy.
I need new recipes, btw. I'm having major aversions to garlic, tomatoes and chocolate and everything I cook has one of the three in it What am I going to DO????????
post #29 of 307
Helen I would starve if I couldn't eat tomatoes or garlic. They're in everything I make! Good luck!
post #30 of 307
I survived my first trimester with Neela on toast with peanut butter and nectarines sliced on top.

I've been skimming through your links, too, Aubrey. And following the plastic-free blog ever since.

I made a bunch of cute simple felt dolls at Christmas, then forgot about them for a while. This week dh and I have started working on a menagerie of cute felt animals- I finished the octopus last night, and he's making an elephant right now. We went to the fabric store today and bought assorted buttons and trimmings to make other little animals. Fun, fun!
post #31 of 307
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I need new recipes, btw. I'm having major aversions to garlic, tomatoes and chocolate and everything I cook has one of the three in it What am I going to DO????????
I just invented a very nice healthy recipe last night that has no tomatoes or garlic or chocolate in it.

http://food-n-stuff.blogspot.com/

And, aversion to chocolate?!?! What the hell is your body THINKING?!? :
post #32 of 307
That sounds gorgeous, apart from the maple syrup and cream, I might well be trying that.
My big fear is that this baby turns out to have allergies too, especially with the chocolate (aka dairy) aversion. My skin is playing up again as well, I'm just crawling with eczema
Mel, I misread that and for a moment, thought that you named your daughter after a foodstuff
post #33 of 307
Aubrey- this is the first time i have even looked at your blog . . . i always feel like a bit of an intruder looking at people's siggies
but. . . i love all of the links you've got up, especially the plastic free blog - very interesting stuff!!!
post #34 of 307
*sighs very deeply*

I just read a friend's MySpace blog and she's talking about how she's letting her one month old baby CIO. And how hard it is to let her baby cry but she can only go 10 minutes but it's getting easier.

I want to smash my head into something.
post #35 of 307
Feel free to put me in touch with her- I'm not on myspace, but I tried CIO. I tried it again and again and it doesn't fucking work.
And to Suriya and all the other babies with mummies with sense.
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*sighs very deeply*

I just read a friend's MySpace blog and she's talking about how she's letting her one month old baby CIO. And how hard it is to let her baby cry but she can only go 10 minutes but it's getting easier.

I want to smash my head into something.


OMG, one month old??! That makes *me* want to cry!
post #37 of 307
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OMG, one month old??! That makes *me* want to cry!

Me too. Honestly, I have refused to maintain friendships with people who let their babies CIO because I just can't handle listening to stories about babies crying like that. It makes me feel ill. I'm not shy about saying right to their faces that I think it's child abuse.
post #38 of 307
Yeah I'm composing a nice reply to her blog letting her know why I'm unfriending her.
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Yeah I'm composing a nice reply to her blog letting her know why I'm unfriending her.
Are you? Good. Speaking of Myspace, I'm going to see if Maggie Gyllenhaal will be my friend. She's awesome.

Totally O/T, my best friend just told me last week that she has recently that with the fact that her husband of just under 3 years is an alcoholic. I didn't know this at all (she hasn't told me all of the stuff that's been going on this whole time), but she says it's been pretty bad for the past 2 years, and she told him this past weekend he needs to move out, and he can't come back until he is in some kind of treatment program. He's totally in denial, blaming her, bargaining, etc. - definitely NOT ready to get help at this point. She's got two kids; one Brynn's age, and a 6-year old. So I'm feeling pretty heavy about it.
post #40 of 307
Sorry, Amy, I'm a clueless Brit. Is Maggie Gyllenhaal married to that Jake bloke, or is she ???
I'm so sorry about your friend.
DiD, I've been thinking further about this. Based on how messed up and clueless I was, and how desperately I was struggling with PND, do you think this girl actually knows how heartbreaking CIO is, and how wrong it can be for everyone? Because I didn't. I was 21, clueless, hadn't slept for more than 45 minutes straight in 8 months (plus pregnancy) and when my mum and my health visitor encouraged me to do it, I really felt I was out of options. Speak your mind, yeah, but could you try and lead her from the dark side to the good, instead of burning your bridges with her?
(This post is not an endorsement of CIO. I just think that maybe there's something else going on and education is the answer.)
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