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post #221 of 268
That is a very good sign, kk! How great that you might have a mama friend right next door with similar values.

TC I so know how you feel about waiting on B and whenever he gets home, etc etc...I rolled my eyes with you because I get soooo sick of that kind of BS.

Hopefully you are happily camping now...have fun, happy campers!

Happily snuffling in my jammies and coffee cup as I write this, after a GOOD NIGHT'S SLEEP! Seems like Amara woke 8 million times but I went to bed with the girls and got UP with the girls, who slept an extra hour and a half, so I am fully well rested. This is good after the previous night trekking to that show I told ya about, and getting up at the usual time. I was really on edge yesterday. Lack of sleep does me in REAL fast, I don't know how the chronically sleep-deprived do it.

Tonight is another show, and every Saturday. I am looking forward to it. More director complaints: the show we trekked to, has not paid us yet (and is a better-paying one than the usual Saturdays) and my musicians are grouchy about that. It's the City that is footing the bill on that one so gov't things are like, the runaround. Bigtime bother, and more stress. Gah.

So psyched about my car. I canNOT figure out how to get it, due to my other car here, which I want to keep. As a migrant gringa, I am allowed only one car. Solution would be: Viet brings the other car. Strange laws of importation require that NO CAR MADE IN JAPAN be imported, so my Camry is SOL. I can bring in my RAV4, even though it's made in Japan, because my migrant status is a temporary one (same deal with the Camry) and it's not a permanent importation.
The Camry is a '92, with 286k miles on it. Two windows that don't work. It's market value is like, zip. So to sell it seems stupid; it's value to me as a car is much greater than the $500 or so I would get for it. The idea is that Viet drives the Camry and has ability to take the girls AWAY from my house and me for spells, which we are unable to do if I need the car for any reason.

So here's my solution: Have a gringo drive the car into Mexico, with the title in their name, and then fly back to their home never to see or worry about the car again. The hitch is that if that same gringo ever wants to drive into Mexico again with a car in their name (beyond the border cities) they will have difficulties, and yes the Camry will be illegal after their tourist visa expires but that's not a huge deal. So I'm desperately seeking a gringo who would do that, and there are millions who never plan to drive their car into Mexico (just flying in would never be an issue), but how many want to do this for me? Like, none that I can tell! I'm hitting up my family members but they all eventually plan to drive in. Guh.

That's my report for this Fine Saturday.
post #222 of 268
Elsanne- I hope you find your gringo.

My, oh my. I just read 4 pages and my head is spinning. I would desperately love to participate in all the may mama goings-on, but I'm just too overwhelmed with my own little life.

I finally paid bills last week, only to receive a letter from a collection agency (for a bill I already paid) today. Ack- I've always had a pristine credit report (TC- gotta say I'm not so good being calm about little pieces of mail, but also I'm sorry that day sucked so royally for you).

We moved last weekend, upstairs, to run away from the moldy wall from a shower leak.

There is family drama. Crazy false accusations have been made against me. Tears have fallen. Many angry letters composed in my head, but none sent as of yet. Fortunately, dh is fully supportive of me, or this situation would be way more horrible than it is. Perhaps I will elaborate on YG, though I have talked to several of my IRL friends already, people who are familiar with the parties involved.

Kids are both happy and healthy. Today W learned to roll over on purpose. Today L said to his baby doll, "oh honey, maybe I should give you some milk," and proceeded to pull up his shirt and nurse.

That is all for tonight. I'lll try to get online again within the next week, so as to not get so behind- it feels so good to check in with ya'll.
post #223 of 268
els, that's quite the conundrum. I hope you find your gringo too! Could you reverse the trip, and send one of your local friends UP to fetch it?

fiddle. Even without details, that drama sounds really wretched.
post #224 of 268
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Today L said to his baby doll, "oh honey, maybe I should give you some milk," and proceeded to pull up his shirt and nurse.

: fern! This anecdote is too cute. I am sooo soooorrry about your family drama and collection letter.

Wakey wakey here. Last night was fun, wine was consumed.
post #225 of 268
last night was fun for us too - we went to a wedding. m&ms were consumed by the handful. i don't think anyone should put out bowls of m&ms anywhere that there may be a 3yo on the loose.

this wedding was at a house which was on probably an acre smack in the middle of vancouver and this garden was *AMAZING*. the owner has been working on it for 30 years. i'm talking waterfall, stream, 2 koi ponds, tons of hidden sitting areas, cave, stone pathways for exploring, outdoor bathroom (!), and so many amazing plantings. i wanted to live there! it was so inspiring.

bedtimes are a nightmare these days. isaac does not want to go to sleep. and by the end of the day i can't cope with that


beth - that is so cute what L said i'm glad you got moved upstairs and away from the mold. i hope the family drama resolves itself soon

els - if i didn't have these 2 kidlets i'd do the drive

coming home an hour after he says is one of my dh's 'talents' it is one that really grates on a frazzled nerve

kk - your summer fun sounds, well....FUN! dinking around in water sounds great.

i got out in my yard on friday and pulled some weeds and it felt GREAT. my 2 front beds are overrun with weeds right now and it bugs me every time i come home. those are next
post #226 of 268
back from camping... ahhhhh... fun... got rained on today as we packed up, though. that was not fun. now must go unpack car full of somewhat wet stuff, so more later this week.

els: car sitch... hmmm... what city is car in currently? and where do you need it to end up? just over the border or down by you?

~claudia
post #227 of 268
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back from camping... ahhhhh... fun... got rained on today as we packed up, though. that was not fun. now must go unpack car full of somewhat wet stuff, so more later this week.

els: car sitch... hmmm... what city is car in currently? and where do you need it to end up? just over the border or down by you?

~claudia
Glad you had fun camping! Did you do s'mores? I have so many positive camping family memories.

It is in Phoenix, and needs to end up over any border (closest would be Nogales, about 4-5 hrs' drive from Phoenix).
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post #228 of 268
I would so love to run off and make that trip! darn distance! I'm pretty absolutely sure I'll never be driving a car of mine to Mexico.


FF--miss you and hearing about your guys. That story about L is cute and amazing on many levels! Can't believe W is getting so big!

Humor me, but what are reasons one could be reaaaalllly tired when pregnant. I'm thinking baby growth spurt or it's normal or I'm a nut or combination of the three? I am ready to fall asleep by 5pm every day and have no energy for anything. blah. Iron? Thryoid? Don't see the mw again til the 9th or 10th or something.
post #229 of 268
if you're like me you're dropping asleep at 8pm (or 5pm!) and then completely wide awake at 3am. are you getting any naps in the afternoon? i think it is just pregnancy tiredness. i was able to nap on weekends but not weekdays and i would be really wiped out on work nights.

i'm glad camping was fun. we bought our family sized tent last night at costco (we only had the backpacking tent too and i also agree those days are OVAH)

ahhh monday morning. i have so many dishes and and loads of laundry to do! FUN!
post #230 of 268
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Humor me, but what are reasons one could be reaaaalllly tired when pregnant. I'm thinking baby growth spurt or it's normal or I'm a nut or combination of the three? I am ready to fall asleep by 5pm every day and have no energy for anything. blah. Iron? Thryoid? Don't see the mw again til the 9th or 10th or something.
Iron? I remember needing some extra food and rest ~5 mos. Where are you at?

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There is family drama. Crazy false accusations have been made against me. Tears have fallen. Many angry letters composed in my head, but none sent as of yet. Fortunately, dh is fully supportive of me, or this situation would be way more horrible than it is. Perhaps I will elaborate on YG, though I have talked to several of my IRL friends already, people who are familiar with the parties involved.
Don't know what it is, but I'm sending s your way and :hags their way. If you *do* want to elaborate elsewhere, feel free.
post #231 of 268
I dropped of the MDC radar. We had a HUGE party on Saturday to celebrate our 10th aniversary complete with bouncy castle for the little ones.
Next week we are leaving town again.
I have so much to say that I can't even get started. I guess it will have to wait.
post #232 of 268
Heather, there are so many reasons one needs to rest during pregnancy. PLUS, you are A SAHM, which means you work your arse off every single day for many more than 8 hrs. So. Pleeeenttyyyy of reasons to be sleepy. Are you taking a good multi vitamin? I take all-one powder (www.all-one.com) in juice.
post #233 of 268
KK--that must be it then...am about 5.5ish months.
Els--I do think I need a better vite....

Highlight of the day: C puking all over her therapist's office. half-choked on a darn pretzel. so glad she had shells and sauce for lunch. yucko. total flashback moment. I can't believe I used to deal with that with her every day/multiple times a day until until almost 2.

Off to change into jammies, see the girlies off to bed and rest!
post #234 of 268
hey all, remember ducettemama? she's pregnant again and due in december. just caught a post of hers in the dec ddc and clicked. you still reading along, ducette?

bad evening. stefan was freaking out and beyond tired but wouldn't go to sleep. it was driving me crazy. literally. need to unwind. glass of wine would be nice but i think i'm too tired. maybe tea... els: mamas who do it mostly by themselves rock, because i would seriously have a breakdown if i had no one to relieve me and save me from myself.

~claudia
post #235 of 268
claudia. Sorry 'bout yoru bad day. I had one yesterday, too. I tooootally lost my cool with Sarah and have felt awful ever since. :

So the camping trip was a huge hit! We had a blast, and the girls are great little campers. Only downfall was the college kids across the way Saturday night who were loud into the wee hours of Sunday morning. I knew we were in trouble when I saw them with a funnel and lots'o'beer in the afternoon. But we had a good time, and are looking forward to doing it again sometime soon.

Katie had her first dentist visit this morning and she did great!! The office I took her to was highly recommended by some mama friends of mine, and it didn't disappoint! They were so nice and patient with her. They also had a TV in the room, so she could watch some cartoons while they worked, so that was a nice distraction. But honestly she didn't need it, she was actually excited to go. And she was beyond thrilled when they gave her a toothbrush to take home! So big sigh of relief there. Now Sarah has an appt. tomorrow afternoon, and that's the one I'm most nervous about. She's sooo squeamish and I worry it will not go well.

Alrighty, better sign off! Catch you later!
post #236 of 268
i know the feeling. except my 'relief' is out golfing. he says 'i thought you'd be mad i wasn't home with you and the kids.' well i wasn't, til you mentioned it just kiddin. i wish i had a 'getaway' hobby right now but that hasn't happened yet.

doug and i have both needed someone to save us from ourselves at night. every.single.night. involves screaming episodes from isaac and him staying up until 11. it is soooooooo tiresome and he is driving us both to the brink of insanity with it : my mom is coming sunday. maybe she can get him back on his routine.

my goal for the day is 'vacuurming'. and taking some worn shoes back to nordstrom with no box or receipt. isaac wore them once and that was it. we'll see if it works.
post #237 of 268
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I thought my isp ate my post, but here it is (from ~3 hrs ago):

I'm having a little break from the kids... just got back from running errands. Ack--what is it about running errands in the afternoon that makes my kids insane? (Is it all kids, or just mine?) Grr. L is normally so mellow, too, but she's teething (my nipples off) and I think she has a touch of a virus that's been going around. Anyway, picture me trying to return a gallon of concrete stain. Carp--I don't have the receipt (even though I *always* have the receipt). Then I try to choose a new color of concrete *paint*, except there are 2000 colors and the kids are screaming like banshees. I grabbed some paint chips and ran. I was supposed to pick up a new swamp cooler float (sounds *waaay* more glamorous than what it is), but I left the old broken one in the car. Let's hope the one I grabbed was the right one.

Jess, my getaway hobby is gardening... Hmm. That sounds good right about now.

***

Thinking of you all.. the summer seems to be flying by (maybe except for the pg ladies... )
post #238 of 268
kk, please hag me!!! I like your new senior title.

getaway hobby = bellydance. Stressful hobby = bellydance.

Methinks me needs a new hobby. jk, because really I adore it. I just don't wanna be the teacher any more! I just wanna dance!
post #239 of 268
Y'all, I feel like a bad friend. :
I just realized I zoomed off to Newport with nary a "see ya later"! on Friday! I am home briefly because I was SUPPOSED to see Morrissey with my best friend this evening, but after playing 5 or so songs the man walked off the stage and we were told he "lost his voice" and they'd reschedule the show for another time. GRR!
Ah well, at least I got here to feed the and check email and shoot off a note to you wonderful mama-jamas.

I am thinking of you all, and I love you muchly. I'm sorry I've been such a flake lately!

More when I get back Friday afternoon! Newport's been fun, who knew, Rowan digs the beach like WHOAH...bodes well for Hawaii in July!

Hope you all are well.

post #240 of 268
Hey Girl! Missed you 'round here! Bummer about Morrissey, I once saw the Pixies in Portland and I can't remember who it was but they were obviously very ill, and just did a few songs and then shut down the gig like that. Must be hard to be a rock star, no time for illness!
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