Okay, here's the scoop. I'm working towards my DONA certification, and I have a client who will deliver any day now. She called me on Thursday after her visit to the doc, and she's 4 cm dialated and 80% effaced. I spoke with her again tonight, and she's still hanging in there. Problem? The DONA certification packet states that labor support must begin at the onset of active labor. DONA considers active labor to begin at 4 cm. Obviously, I am not going to move in with client because she's 4 cm, and has been for 4 days. She's just fine, carrying on with life as usual, and doesn't need me at all right now.
Additionally, the hospital will only allow 2 people in the birthing room
: and she wants her SIL who is also her best friend, and DP in the room. However, DP is unreliable as a birth partner per her last birth, and may not even show on time. DONA states my support must be constant. What if she asks me to leave because she wants a private moment with DP, or we have to rotate to accomodate hospital policy (which will almost certainly happen unless I can convince them to bend the rules)? Does that disqualify the birth for cert purposes?
I'm almost thinking that I should just give up on using this for cert, and only for experience. What do you all think?
Additionally, the hospital will only allow 2 people in the birthing room
: and she wants her SIL who is also her best friend, and DP in the room. However, DP is unreliable as a birth partner per her last birth, and may not even show on time. DONA states my support must be constant. What if she asks me to leave because she wants a private moment with DP, or we have to rotate to accomodate hospital policy (which will almost certainly happen unless I can convince them to bend the rules)? Does that disqualify the birth for cert purposes?I'm almost thinking that I should just give up on using this for cert, and only for experience. What do you all think?








) during the birth, so don't worry about that. If you're taking turns supporting her, I'd just go with my gut on whether you can count it.



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