No perm. BC here, but this pregnancy was a suprise. We DTD 2 days past O and thought we'd be 'safe' even though NFP rules say to wait 3 days. I was really upset at first, we did want more kids, just not now. We have a lot of other things going on, including starting a new house in February, so it wasn't the best timeing. It took me about a week for me to finally be kinda happy about it, and get to the point of saying "Hey, we can do this!"... then we found out it was twins! I can honestly say I am jsut so happy now! How incredible that we happened to concieve twins, and they are also both boys, which evened out our family perfectly. Just give yourself time, and it's okay to not be thrilled w/ being pregnant, especially if you get lots of MS in the beginning (like me!).