carriebft, that's a great explanation. I think my school needs to read it. I think there's a fine line here. I'm not opposed to competition because it will be and is a part of their every day life. But it should not be forced upon them.
However, and I hope I explain this correctly, I really disagree with "dancing around" the subject of competition in certain situations depending on age. The younger children don't care as much about scores and things like that so it's easier to do non-competetive stuff with them. With the older children, they instinctually care about those things and are motivated by it while, say, playing a basketball game. I have seen people running a game like this tell the kids "we're not keeping score" and it ends up being more detrimental because you get the kids focusing on keeping the score in their heads because they want to know really badly how they've been doing and it distracts them from the actual activity. On top of that, if they've kept score in their heads, calculated it and shared it with other students, the teachers have often made the children feel like they're doing something wrong by telling them again, "we're not keeping score". I know the teachers are trying to protect the "losing team", but I'm sorry, children need to know what it's like to be on that end of things and learn coping skills.
I often wonder how these children will deal with getting into other schools for their higher grades and college.
I honestly don't understand why people think they are doing a favor by making everything extremely non-competetive. I'm not a harsh person

, this just comes from what I've observed as a teacher. When everything is so non-competetive, when something comes along that is competetive, how are they going to deal with it?
ETA: Sorry for the philosophical post, it's partly a vent! I just think that some M schools don't follow the philosophy as explained in what was posted by carriebft, and I think that they should. In short, it varies from school to school but most don't have "organized sports" outside of maybe having a physical education teacher and classes.