While not answering your question, I'll add in my 2c anyway.
I think the heightened emotions of pregnancy are beneficial and therefore might have been selected for evolutionarily. For one thing humans are a tribal rather than a solitary species. Folks in heightened emotional states often get nurturing from group members. (Just think of how everyone in a room is aware of and modifies their thoughts and behavior toward the one person sobbing.) It makes sense to me that nurtured momma are better nourished and better socially supported than ignored mommas.
Beyond the evolutionary group dynamics, I think the emotions of pregnancy are good for the mother. I think most of us go through our lives with things relatively settled. The fluctuating hormones of pregnancy roil up the systems so things long buried surface. When little things trigger big responses do to unresolved past issues, we have the opportunity to process through them and move on unhindered. For me the heightened emotions draw my attention to disrespected boundaries in relationships. As I was raised in a highly controlling, person-hood violating environment. I've viewed the "emotional lability of pregnancy" a training ground for healthy respectful relationships.
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Originally Posted by YumaDoula 
Here's a benign example: Recently I was watching "The Sound of Music" with my kids. For like the 5 zillionth time. Anyway during the scene where Maria marries Captain Von Trapp I started SOBBING. I have never cried during SOM in my life. I can't help but blame the hormones on that.
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You might feel silly crying at a wedding of movie characters but I read that and hear
empathy. Just think of all the ways empathy makes us better parents. It makes us kind and gentle when we are tired and irritated. It allows us to care for the weakest instead of placing our resources into those who can survive on their own. I can't imagine empathetic parents being able "To Train Up a Child" or be "Babywise". Empathy empowers us to follow the Golden Rule.
BV, whose children have made her kinder, more patient, and far less strident and dogmatic... a better person
