Son had an erection, how should I respond? - Page 3

[Ruthla]

He's 11 and this is his first erection? DS has been getting them since infancy.

I teach all of my kids that our bodies are special, but that certain parts are private. Not shameful, just private- these parts are simply too special to go around showing everybody. They're for yourself and for your spouse/partner someday.

[mommy68]

Originally Posted by txgal

At 11, it seems that he should have some awareness of social norms, and like it or not walking around and showing off your erection is not a social norm.

I agree. We have had talks with our son about what is appropriate and what is not for years now. He wouldn't have done this age age 11. I would have been extremely taken aback if he would have. But maybe my son is just more mature for his age, I dunno.

[LotusBirthMama]

my son is ten and i could totally see him doing the same thing. he's immature (socially) for his age. i think it has to do w/ homeschooling him the last year. when his schooled buddies come over they seem so much more "manly" to me. OP, i think you handled it very well! I hope I can do as good a job.