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post #1 of 15
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This will sound loopy to some and forgive me if you don't believe in this. I am x-posting with the I'm Pregnant forum because it interests me.

Something made me think of this today. There was someone living with us in the townhouse years ago where we lived when my DS3 was born. Someone we couldn't see, if you know what I mean.

I have always experienced spirits in various places (none in this house now, I am surprised!) so it's normal. And I didn't feel bad things about this one like the ones I'd grown up with.

When the baby was born and brought home, the presence was constant wherever the baby was. Often, when we settled into bed, I could feel this presence (which seemed like a male to me) sit down on the bed with us. Nothing else, just sit there. It wasn't all the time, but fairly often at first (and you know how often we wake at night and get up to pee or change positions to breastfeed in bed before settling back in).

When Jack was a week old and my husband went to the hospital for an emergency appendectomy, I called mom to watch the kids so I could be there for him when he woke up.

Mom has no problem piling into my bed with my kids, so she laid there with Jack. She told me about her experience at some point after that. She said she felt this THING that kept sitting on the bed with her and getting up and sitting down again like it was pacing. It also seemed to be following her. She felt it was watching her to be sure she was taking care of the baby the right way. Jack was not settled at all and didn't like getting pumped milk in a bottle from grandma at his age, as you can imagine.

Whoever/whatever it was never followed us or anything when we moved away and it slowly seemed to disappear into the background again as Jack got a few months older while we were still there.

There are other stories I've read of spirits coming to labors or visiting after baby's born. So -- anyone else?
post #2 of 15
Nope, no spirits here, but goosebumps right now. Did that ever freak you out or was it the kind that calms you?
post #3 of 15
oh WOW gina. i was just talking about this with someone the other day.......if we believed in ghosts and i said yes but i don't experience them like some do/can as i think i block it out as i fear it...it does fascinate me. i do believe in this for sure...

that is creepy. i wouldn't want any spirit on MY bed like that...is that partly why you moved?

the only spirit i ever experienced was that of my ex boyfriend who died of a drug/alcohol OD in '95. i don't believe it was necessarily HIM that visited me but he sent a hummingbird into my bedroom at night...it was really amazing. i found one of the hummingbirds teeeny feathers a few days later on my comforter. pretty incredible!!! when i first found it i thought it was blood or a scab or something from my cats...it was so teeney weeny...i kept it until about 2000...i wish i'd never thrown that away but i was going thru a big born again christian phase w/ another boyfriend who was one and i thru away anything that wasn't of that belief. sigh...

i was just wishing tonight that i wish i was in touch/tune w/ my baby so taht i could really 'feel' (w/out my psychological influences interfering as they do...) what this baby's sex is...i want to know so badly. i need an u/s. i need to know so i may connect more and be at peace. i think part of it is again, w/ tom as w/ my ex, i feel he and his family hope for a boy.....i am torn, i kind of hope its a boy so my dd who is from a previous rela doesn't feel any less than if i were to have a girl, w/ tom and his family, ya know.......and then i kind of hope it IS a girl so i have 2 girls......and if i left i feel like it'd be easier leaving while pg and them all knowing its a girl. silly i know...but it is what i sense. and usually my sensing is right on. people think i'm over emotional but i do sense these truths from people...
post #4 of 15
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Did that ever freak you out or was it the kind that calms you?
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that is creepy. i wouldn't want any spirit on MY bed like that...is that partly why you moved?
It didn't freak me out that badly (I'd grown up with some nasties in my parent's house and this was nothing compared to them) and no, that's not why we moved.

But it was NOT particularly calming and it was annoying and intrusive. Really. I don't feel I knew "him" and I would be falling asleep and feel someone sitting down or getting up from my bed which just wakes you up every time. Or walking down the hall and the stairs, you just knew "he" was following you. It was like whoever it was seemed very controlling and wanted to be sure we were taking care of the baby.
post #5 of 15
Yikes, that freaks me out! I do believe in spirits, but I've never experienced it. Like another poster said, I probably block it from fear, I don't know.
post #6 of 15
Gina, I have experienced this. I grew up with a scary presence in my grandparents' house, and there are many family members that had encounters. No one ever talked about it around me when I was little, so when I got older it explained a lot when I was old enough to hear the stories. He was not nice!

After my DD was born I felt other presences that were very, very comforting. I know who they are and that they were visiting only to share in our joy. They used to hang out in her room. I hope they will come back again to visit when this baby is born. I miss them both a lot and it's very nice to be around them again, even if it's just a fleeting feeling.

Some of them are attached to places and may or may not like you. But those who are tied to you--those are the ones I like.
post #7 of 15
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Melissa, I've also had friends and family tell me about experiences in my parent's house and the barn. It's a farm house that was originally built maybe 120-130 years ago and it's got several spirits, two of which are just not nice.

My oldest had a very bad experience with it when he was young and was going to the bathroom (and didn't know about "ghosts" so it wasn't like we planted the idea there). I think it's affected him ever since as even at 11 he will run from the bathroom or a darkened room.

The hardest part is when I go back to visit and I sleep in my old room and use my old bathroom (my brother and I had our own rooms and shared a bathroom upstairs) as I have forgotten the primal fear you feel in those rooms. I have to remind myself I am a big girl so I can get through the visit. I had grown up thinking it was normal to feel watched and followed and that I was just a freak for always feeling afraid of everything. Once I moved out, I knew that wasn't normal.
post #8 of 15
That is exactly how I felt! But I didn't have to live there every day. How awful!

A few years ago I was sitting around telling stories about this with my uncles, and one of them said to my mom, "Well, little Scotty [my brother] saw him too." And my mom was shocked. And my uncle said, "One night Scotty came out of the room where he was sleeping and we were all up late playing cards and he said, 'There was a man in my room and I threw up.'" Apparently, my mom didn't hear that part and just thought he was sick. He was 5 years old.

You're right--I felt a primal fear and I felt like I was constantly being watched. There were rooms that were worse than others. As a child, I didn't know what it meant, but I didn't like it!

My grandpa told me when I was little that there were leprechauns in the barn. Later I found out he said that to us little kids bc that was the worst place of all and he wanted us to stay away from it.
post #9 of 15
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i wish i'd never thrown that away but i was going thru a big born again christian phase w/ another boyfriend who was one and i thru away anything that wasn't of that belief. sigh...
(((Hugs))) Poor mama. This might sound way out of line but I think you clearly pick up on other peoples expectation and want to please them. Be what they want and not who you are.

Too often I do the same and it is a life lesson to me that I can love people but I need to love me first and be who I am first. It is not selfish, and I will still connect with people if I am who I am!
post #10 of 15
thank you. yes i struggle w/ this. and then i AM my outspoken very passionate self and i get dissed for that too. i can't win. lol i'll find my tribe sooner or later. ;o)

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(((Hugs))) Poor mama. This might sound way out of line but I think you clearly pick up on other peoples expectation and want to please them. Be what they want and not who you are.

Too often I do the same and it is a life lesson to me that I can love people but I need to love me first and be who I am first. It is not selfish, and I will still connect with people if I am who I am!
post #11 of 15
I have been thinking on this before posting and I am still not sure how to express what I am thinking. I guess I will say that I am one of those people and this one of those things that I choose to not think much on. Not because I do not believe but because it opens up too many thinking doors I have little time for these days.

I will say I have felt things over the years and have always tried to explain them away. I have taken Shamonic classes on death and dieing and even then I keep those doors closed. LOL There is a death walking class this summer with one of my favorite writers, Kristen Madden, and though I would love to see her, that path is not for me, not right now anyway. LOL You guys with interest though might want to look her up as she knows much about such things!

Blessings,
Kimmy
post #12 of 15
Thread Starter 
It is a scary door to open. I totally understand.
post #13 of 15
I will say I am tickled to see this topic here as it is a thinking question, just not one of mine.

Here is mine, if babys spirit is here already, is it as annoyed with me as I am of it? LOL
post #14 of 15
I had a spirit with me for a lOOONG time, since I was a kid, it followed me for a long time thru many moves (it always took a few weeks to find my new place though! always loved those few weeks!) anyway, I ended up doing a lot of spiritual clearing work thru several people I know well and I have managed to disengage me from my dark spirit.. I have not experienced anything specific with the boys but my energy healer did say Evan had an attatched spirit that was fairly benign but bothersome,, she disengaged him.. interesting stuff....
post #15 of 15
I love this topic too! I stayed in "THE" room at a haunted hotel without knowing it, I just felt really uncomfortable and asked someone if the place was haunted. The main thing that would happen was I'd be almost asleep and it felt like someone would push the bed really hard and I'd wake up. I didn't sleep that whole month! I put my mattress on the floor! Then I remembered that years ago I'd seen that same hotel on Unexplained Mysteries and recognized the bar from the tv show! It took a while to sink in. Anyhow, I always kind of thought I was psyching myself out, but for a few years after I'd occasionally wake up in different places feeling like someone had pushed my bed. The last time it happened was ten years ago at an old rowhouse I lived in in Baltimore...not since then.

About 4 years ago when I was going through a really hard time I had a lot of psychokenesis type stuff happening...I thought my apartment was haunted but I didn't have that creepy feeling of being watched from before, it's just that stuff around me would move and break. I've been told that sometimes when there's strong energy that you're repressing it can trigger psycho-kenesis. I had some big stuff coming up and hadn't gotten it out yet...I needed to find a therapist and fast I just didn't know that's what it was! LOL That's why teenagers are such magnets for "poltergeists"...all that repressed energy and hormones. Since dealing with the issues that were coming up, it's all stopped again. I kind of miss it...it's fun feeling like you caused a mug to smash itself on the ground at the gift shop at work from across the room.

Ya know, if you believe in that sort of thing
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