Is there any reason that the baby needs to be kept lower than the abdomen till the cord is clamped??? I guess I've been under the impression that the cord should be left pulsing till it stops, and then cut..... but that the baby can also immediatly be brought up to the mother... and even up to the breast.
However, I may find out that my midwife recommends keeping the baby below the belly till after the cord is clamped.
I'm meeting with her this week, I just want to collect info on this before the appointment.
I know it can take a long time for the cord to stop pulsing and the one thing that I want is to be immediatly able to hold my baby. With my son, the cord was short and wrapped around his legs and they only brought him up to my belly. He tried to crawl up to me... so I was devastated when they took him away before I could really hold him and see him and nurse him.
Of course, there was no reason to take him away, and I should have TOLD them that, but I was not able to express my wishes (which is why I am using a different hospital, midwife, and have a doula).
Thanks,
Jessica
However, I may find out that my midwife recommends keeping the baby below the belly till after the cord is clamped.
I'm meeting with her this week, I just want to collect info on this before the appointment.
I know it can take a long time for the cord to stop pulsing and the one thing that I want is to be immediatly able to hold my baby. With my son, the cord was short and wrapped around his legs and they only brought him up to my belly. He tried to crawl up to me... so I was devastated when they took him away before I could really hold him and see him and nurse him.
Of course, there was no reason to take him away, and I should have TOLD them that, but I was not able to express my wishes (which is why I am using a different hospital, midwife, and have a doula).
Thanks,
Jessica








I'm sure everything will go awesome this time. One thing I keep in mind about my birth (which went fantastically well, yet there are things I would change) is that I experienced those less desirable things just this once and I can do better this time, I know what to expect, what to do and how to inform the people around me what I want this time.