Ok, just one more. After making a mayan cocoa, and cleaning up yet another puddle of deer fawn pee (I CANNOT find a rehabilitator for this litle thing! It's absurd! They say that she's "just a deer" they don't have time! 
: ) a thought occurred to me.
I believe my earlier post lacked clarity. The reason I drew the parralells I did, is because they cannot be helped.
Yes stretch marks are natural, and circucisiom isn't. Duh: However we had no say in either.
I take care of my body. Yes, DH would want me anyway, this I KNOW about us. But FOR ME I like knowing that I'm a knock-out for him. My weight I have control over, my brown nipples and stretch marks I don't.
He also, knowing that I'd sleep with him no matter what, also makes effort to maintain beauty for "me". His hair, beard, etc. that he can control. NOT his circumcision.
Things that cannot be controlled, are not to be focussed on for asthetic purposes in our view.
Furthermore as far as asthetics go, restored penises are not more beutiful than circumcised ones. I've seen plenty, they are as unatural as circumsion and it shows. It needs to remain a personal decision for the man. It takes time, effort, and is not comfortable. Your husband will choose it if HE needs to, just like us and the happy husband stitch. I had mine snipped because it hurt badly during sex. I know a woman whose husband is horrified that they did that to her without her consent, but she has no pain from it, and cares not. I did.
: ) a thought occurred to me.I believe my earlier post lacked clarity. The reason I drew the parralells I did, is because they cannot be helped.
Yes stretch marks are natural, and circucisiom isn't. Duh
: However we had no say in either.I take care of my body. Yes, DH would want me anyway, this I KNOW about us. But FOR ME I like knowing that I'm a knock-out for him. My weight I have control over, my brown nipples and stretch marks I don't.
He also, knowing that I'd sleep with him no matter what, also makes effort to maintain beauty for "me". His hair, beard, etc. that he can control. NOT his circumcision.
Things that cannot be controlled, are not to be focussed on for asthetic purposes in our view.
Furthermore as far as asthetics go, restored penises are not more beutiful than circumcised ones. I've seen plenty, they are as unatural as circumsion and it shows. It needs to remain a personal decision for the man. It takes time, effort, and is not comfortable. Your husband will choose it if HE needs to, just like us and the happy husband stitch. I had mine snipped because it hurt badly during sex. I know a woman whose husband is horrified that they did that to her without her consent, but she has no pain from it, and cares not. I did.
