MabMama~ My last baby was 15 days past dates and she was over 10 lbs and we had a pretty bad case of SD too. If fact we broke her arm, so I was a little worried about that this time too. I have a new mw this time in whom I am a little more confident in and she seems to think that it is more about the position of the baby and also the position in which you birth. I feel confident that all will go well with this one. Talk to you little one and tell it how/where it's shoulders need to be etc. I'm sure you'll be fine!!
Ok...so...we might be getting somewhere. I think I have a slow water leak, although, I'm not 100% sure that I'm not peeing myself

But I've got some bloody show and some pretty strong but irregular cxt. So, I am so hoping something will come of it!!