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I'm very new here and am just starting to read all of the Montessori information.

I registered my dd (19 months old now) for a Montessori system Young Child class this fall. She will go three days a week (T, W, Th) from 9-11:30. She can stay to eat lunch and be picked up at 1 if we choose.

My dd has never been in a childcare/daycare type of situation. I was home full-time until 4 months, then started working nights at that time. We have had an in-our-home sitter since then, who watches her until I get home from work, usually an hour or so after she wakes up. We do a lot of things during the day (I work 10 shifts a month, mostly weekends, so I'm home with her almost full-time) and she's around a lot of kids.

I just really don't know what to expect to get her started in this. I don't know how leaving her will be, how she'll cope with that or if this is even the right time for this. She's very outgoing with children but very sensitive. She seems to me to have an abnormal amount of empathy for a child of her age. She worries about things that are dropped and will pat other children on the back or hug them if they are crying.

I don't know enough about Montessori yet, and am going to read a lot of the links provided in the Sticky...how will I know what she does in class? Will her teachers tell me?

I have no specific questions, just am trying to get a feel for how others made the transition with a child of this age. I realize this is not true Montessori, but she will just be in the Young Child class until she turns 3. They talk about the class by calling it a "foundational Montessori program" "using the Montessori method, children are encouraged to develop independence, coordination, and concentration, as well as follow directions through large motor, sensorial, practical life and language experiences."

I want to be sure that I'm doing the right thing for her. This was very rambling and I suppose just a chance for me to put my thoughts down. Any comments are welcomed.

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I went back to work 30 hours per week when dd was 8 weeks old, had her with a relative for care, and started her in a toddler montessori program when she was 15 mos. three mornings per week (9:30 to 11:15), and then INCREASED to 5 mornings per week when she was 25 mos. She really loved it<, plus she reaaly needed the structure and stimulation that neither me nor my dh nor the relative home care provider could give. It was the best thing we ever did! She is now going 6, still in Montessori, but full time during the school year, and in a very arts-oriented Montessori daycamp this summer. She remains very securely attached, very independent, and is learning at her own pace. To whit: this whole school year, she has refused "lessons" in reading from her beloved preprimary teacher; last night and tonight, she has been "lounging" in the bathtub READING real books (Junie B Jones) to herself, and when I asked her how she learned to read, stated. "I just finally figured it out today..."

So, big ups to you, you will hopefully also love a program that never pushes children, only provides the tools they need when THEY decide they are ready...BTW, my older dd was also a Montessori babe ages 4 through 12, now ready for high school at 14.5, and wanted to know why public middle school was so over focused on grades and test scores, and when we said we didn't understand either, she said, "too bad my new teachers never went to Montessori like me and Fiona, huh?"......welcome!!!
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She really loved it, plus she reaaly needed the structure and stimulation that neither me nor my dh nor the relative home care provider could give
EXACTLY!!! WONDERFUL to hear this! Thank you for saying that and for welcoming me!!! I'm trying to learn more about Montessori (I went there as a kid), and I'm fairly certain this is the right move for her.

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We chose to put our 16 m.o. in a Montessori program (won't start full-time until August, when she'll be 18 mos.) because she is so darned bright, and I wanted her to be in a TV-free environment where there would be focus on challenging her mind and giving her a positive social environment. One of the things that is really neat to me about Montessori is how the kids are encouraged to find positive resolutions to conflict--I absolutely did not want her in a place where pushing, biting, or hitting would be tolerated, but I also wanted her to learn ways of dealing with issues that come up. She's also quite sensitive (but pretty self-confident) and I wanted her to continue learning how to balance those as positive traits.

She went to the program last week when our regular SAHM caregiver went on vacation. On the first day, she was happy to be there until it was time for me to leave. Then I handed her to the teacher and the crying started. The teacher said she came around fairly quickly, but bonded tightly to the teacher. The only conflicts she had for the rest of the morning happened when the teacher left the room. The next morning, drop-off was a little more difficult because Freya recognized where she was and what was about to happen. However, she'd quit crying before I even left the building. Same thing with the other days. Oh, and the teacher filled out a little report for me each day that talked about what activities Freya participated in, how well she ate her snack and lunch, number and time of diaper changes, and what Freya's mood/moods were that day.
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Oh, and the teacher filled out a little report for me each day that talked about what activities Freya participated in, how well she ate her snack and lunch, number and time of diaper changes, and what Freya's mood/moods were that day.
Nice! I wonder/hope if my dd's teacher will do that!!!

Just for curiosity sake, what is the education level of most Montessori teachers?
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M. Teachers

Almost all Mont. teachers have a bachelors degree in something (not necessarily e.c. ed. or education) and apart from that (and more Importantly) a certification in Montessori teaching from either the American Montessori Society or the Associacion Montessori Internacionale.
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